i really like him but why does he not want any one to know?
2006-10-29 07:31:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's hiding something, but more importantly why are you putting up with it, find a guy who will be proud to be in a relationship with you and will have no problem letting others know he is in a relationship with you.....
2006-10-29 08:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to not only ask him, but ask yourself why he doesn't want anyone to know about you guys? is he ashamed?does he have a girlfriend and is he just using you? if a man/woman doesn't want to introduce you to their friends, family or proplr in general, something really is off.
and do you really want to be with a man like that?take the hormones away, if that was your best friend in that situation what would you tell her!
2006-10-29 15:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by VeeVee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put the question you asked right to him. I wouldn't trust any guy, no matter how much I liked him, if he was being so secretive. It sure wouldn't make me feel so good about myself. I would suspect he is cheating on someone with you. Check it out with him. If you suspect he is lying, he probably is. Listen with your head and gut on this one.
2006-10-29 15:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Animaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and ask him straight up why he doesn't want anyone to know about your relationship, either he is not ready to let everyone know or there is something going on that you do not know about, so ask him.
2006-10-29 15:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask him why? Could you ask him to meet you at a place, store or a coffee shop? How long have you been together? There must be a reason. Find out.
2006-10-29 17:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by strong1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds odd. unless he has an excellent reason I would need to know why, as this way it sounds like he might be married or in a relationship already, check him out
2006-10-29 15:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo, thats shady.
been there done that. if he truly truly loved you he would want the whole world to knwo that your his. theres a reason he wants to keep it a secret.
1. Theres another girl---he doesn't want her to know
2. Some type of danger if others find out--- socially, perhaps?
2006-10-29 15:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the question you need to ask him,,,,,,,,if the explanation does not totally convince you of a justification for not wanting others to know you are dating,,,,,,DUMP HIM
2006-10-29 15:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by rikenelson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats the deal.....try and find out the reason behind why he doesn't want anyone knowing about the two of you....once you get the answer; decide whether its legit and genuine or if he's just embarassed of something....good luck
2006-10-29 15:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be a number of reasons
if you are under age, he"could be embarassed to be robbing cradle,"
truthfully, if you are not as good looking as most, see above."x"
he might not be that into you and if it is known he has a GF
that would deter potential mates?
ask him!
2006-10-29 15:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋