Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

2006-10-26 12:09:05 · 21 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a messed up situation. My ex was going to terminate his parental rights in court next year, but he died. I have a loving fiancee who wants to be the father of my daughter, but we aren't sure what to do now. Any help would be greatfully appreciated!

2006-10-26 12:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for a year in a relationship with my husband for 3 years I have not yet conceived a child.I know it is not him because he has an 8 yr old son and her is in great physical health. I am in great health also but I just can not conceive.I really know that it is me in more ways then that. Just 5 years ago when I was dating another guy for 4 yrs I still could not conceive and he has a son also that is12 yrs. old now. I am afraid to go to a doctor because he might tell me i can not conceive. That is why I want to adopt or be a foster parent .Am I wrong for not going to the doctor to find out whats wrong and leaving my husband in the dark?

2006-10-26 12:07:56 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family

2006-10-26 12:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by nellie 3 in Singles & Dating

I still has feeling for my ex boyfriend.... And another guy but my ex is being mean cause he knows I like the other guy and he doesn't like me dating other guys. I have tried to talk to him but its hard to because he been dating this other girl off and on.which when we were going out he cheated on me with her ever since he haven talked a lot and I feel like am between him and the other girl and the other guy....How can I get him back and open up to him(I'm really shy). He can be really sweet and lovely guy but lately he been the biggest a~~ in the world. Please help me out I'll take anyone help.......E~mail me if you are in the same spot.

2006-10-26 12:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Friends

i have been with this guy for over 9 mo. im not in love with him any more we're over 3 1/2 hours away from each other. I ****** another guy the other night my ex dont know it but he has been tring to get me back what should i do please help

2006-10-26 12:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by ardmore chic 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm dating a guy significantly older than i and lovemaking is not great. i have a high libido and i tried different methods but his erection last about half a minute long. i know im not the problem cause i like to make love for a long periods of time and in many ways. is there anything he needs to do and how can i help him so i can be satisfied?

2006-10-26 12:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl but i dont know if she likes me back,i dont know how to ask her out,shes my first option but theres this girl in one of my classes that im pretty sure likes me,i dont even talk to her and shes always smiling at me and bumping into me on purpose,shes alright and i guess i would go out with her but i like the other one better what should i do?

2006-10-26 12:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by XZELSOR 3 in Singles & Dating

He is in the hospital for the 5th time from chronic pancreatitis resulting from years of heavy drinking. He finally quit drinking after a 21 day stay in the hospital. Afterward his attitude has been negative and can't seem to find anything else to do with his spare time. He now eats like there's no tomorrow and as a result is in the hospital for the same condition. Our marriage was about to end when he got seriously sick last year and since then, I am exhausted caring for my 3 children and going to college. He works with his stepmom and doesn't worry about anything. I am furious and want out and his family seems to think I need to take better care of him. I feel sorry for him but feel so because of the children. Personally I feel he is dragging our life down with his.

2006-10-26 12:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by mrsL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Iv been seein him for about 6 months and he`s absolutely wonderful and he adores me dearly and the feeling is completely mutual.But when my ex found out he went crazy, but thing is he dumped me coz he wanted to be with someone else, and i learnt to accept that (after crying my heart out for ages)and moved on, and now im happy.And to make it worse, i havnt told my best friend coz i dont know what her reaction will be.Should i feel guilty for being with this new guy coz of what people will think or should i not care, and do i tell my best friend???

2006-10-26 12:05:35 · 25 answers · asked by missbird 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like the worse the fight, the better some of you guys like it! I'm very curious to know why.

2006-10-26 12:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for a year in a relationship with my husband for 3 years I have not yet conceived a child.I know it is not him because he has an 8 yr old son and her is in great physical health. I am in great health also but I just can not conceive.I really know that it is me in more ways then that. Just 5 years ago when I was dating another guy for 4 yrs I still could not conceive and he has a son also that is12 yrs. old now. I am afraid to go to a doctor because he might tell me i can not conceive. That is why I want to adopt or be a foster parent .Am I wrong for not going to the doctor to find out whats wrong and leaving my husband in the dark?

2006-10-26 12:05:08 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family

marriage advise?
I have been married for 18 years. Most very happy. Three years ago my husbands brother died at age 44. It changed my husband so much. He now has become very distant. He doesn't talk much to me..he buries himself in his computer and t.v. He has no interest in sex. I am not certain it all began with the death of his brother...I am just trying to figure it out. He is changing more and more each day. He stays at work late and won't even call to tell me he is working late. When he arrives in the driveway, he stays in his car talking on his cell phone to his mother. Then he comes in the house and barely says a thing. I have suggested counseling but he says "If you have a problem, see a counselor. But I don't have a problem." I know we can't afford a counselor, but I was willing to try anything that might help.
We have two children and I need to try and help him and our relationship for the sake of the children as well as my sanity. I feel so lonely and unloved.

2006-10-26 12:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by rcpaden 5 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-10-26 12:04:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of a woman that comes on to you.

2006-10-26 12:04:10 · 10 answers · asked by Joy! 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i like this guy, i asked him out, he said no, and then i asked himwhy, and he said acause im not pretty, and i ugly? and i have been crying my eyes out for hours what should i do? i really liked him and serious answers please

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2006-10-26 12:03:54 · 30 answers · asked by livers 2 in Singles & Dating

any one seen the bog roll?

2006-10-26 12:02:50 · 21 answers · asked by ben b 5 in Singles & Dating

If you looked down and saw a really cute and sexy guy, but he was only one inch tall.....what would you do? How about if he walked over and flirted with you...told you how hot you were and how tall you were and hugged your toes. Would you go out on a date with the little tiny one inch tall guy? And would you be open to having sex with him? He would sure love to have it with you, of course.

2006-10-26 12:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Little tiny one 2 in Singles & Dating

My man and I dont have kids yet so every holiday we visit awsome places. We've been to California, London, Rome, Spain and this year we wanted to go to New York. Thing is I have a FUNNY FEELING somethings not going to work in NY or something BAD may happen. My man is real excited about going STILL. I suggested we go see his family in Oregon for the holidays it's been a while and his grandparents have been pretty very ILL and we should see them as soon as we can.

New York= $5,000 trip and fun
Oregon= free room and board and family
Where do you think we should go for the holidays?

2006-10-26 12:02:15 · 6 answers · asked by Jason & Milly T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 12:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy sits in front of me in science class. We talk a lot but he is playfully mean to me as well. He tells me that I talk to much and I seem to be the only person he's mean to. He also shows off to me in gym. He'll look at me before shooting a basketball all the time. And he found an exsuse to walk with me today. Does he like me?

2006-10-26 12:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

2 day my dad dug his nails into my arm and climb on top of me then choke me till i throgh up. he was mad beacuse i wouldnt clean my room. i have been struggling with not having a mom and i just dont feel like doing anything anymore. i cant really cocentrate on school and most of the time wish god wouldnt wake me up every morning because i kno that it will just be the same thing. i really want to and my mom said i could live with her but my dad said no she's not able to im 16 i mostly take care of myself i have REAL money and just want her there for ''playing a part'' in my childhood. my dad tried to get my to go out to eat with the family today i didnt want to. is he crazy or what u dont beat up ur child then take he out to eat. anyway sorry this is so long and sorry for anything mispelled.

2006-10-26 12:01:10 · 12 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 12:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by SWF 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been vegetarian for 4 years now and I have no plans of eating meat again. I always find it that guys are kind of turn off from me (or at least one factor they think) whenever they would find out i am a vegetarian. Do you think I should marry a fellow vegetarian too? what if i fall for someone who is meat eater? My dream is really to have a vegetarian family in the future. I know it's hard to shift into vegetarianism coz even myself really put in lots of effort before I finally became stable in my decision. this is also because of the documentary ive watched which showed how cruel animals are being killed. i just cannot take it. i dont know if this lifetime decision will create problems eventually if i marry someone who is meat lover....

2006-10-26 12:00:51 · 21 answers · asked by alet 1 in Weddings

Alrite me and this girl arent going out but were really good friends and it just worked out were not going out to dinner anymore so I wanna get her a lil something. What do you think is should get her?

2006-10-26 12:00:45 · 1 answers · asked by Bratley G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 12:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by lacey_jane07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he lied to me,he gave me the silent treatment, he was lustful to other women, he was a bad communicator, he retaliated at me when i would arugue with him about this, he was selfish, he didnt like to compromise, he denies all of this, and he would act like he didnt care at times. and i hate him for this. cuz he was the total opposite when i met him. so i feel betrayed and used. and i hate his guts. so how can i get over this pain. someone plz help me really.

2006-10-26 12:00:09 · 14 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

what does a man look for when finding a life partner???

2006-10-26 11:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic mess.

2006-10-26 11:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for a few years, Been with my wife for over 10 as a couple. She found e-mails and evidence of porn and some kinky stuff I even find gross and don't know why I did it. It never went further than the e-mails and she doesn't believe me, and has every right not to. We're now seperated. We have a young child. I'm very depressed and don't know what to do. I want to works things out, she doesn't. We've never been to a marriage counselor, but feel this would be the best opportunity.

Any help or advice would be extremely helpful.

2006-10-26 11:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce