Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

im 18 and other girls always act so nice to my face,but then I hear of something they said behing my back.Like for instance theres this girl I know she told me I should cut my hair short..its pretty long,then one of my real friends told me that, that girl told her she only said that because she was jealous of my hair and wanted me to look ugly.Why are girls always out to get other girls?

2006-10-26 12:23:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

guy #1:
~he sits next to me at the bus stop
~hes taller than i am, and a year older
~hes sweet and funny
~he lives 4 houses away from me
~plays tennis (like me) and soccer (on the boys division of the same club i play for)
~blows me kisses
guy #2:
~he sits next to me on the bus
~hes a month or two younger than me, and a couple inches shorter
~hes sweet and funny... and slow danced with me @ the dance
~he goes to my school and is on my after school bus
~dirtbiker
~gives me hugs

i need help... which guy do i keep and which one should i let go of?

2006-10-26 12:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Singles & Dating

i went on date the drive was akward because it was quiet but the movies and after was cool that was on friday. saturday i did not call or text him sunday i do but he would not respond!!!! so i sen him a message saying that it was nice going out with him and if he wanna things to ome back to the old ways it was cool but a little mean today i fin out he was in jail what should i do?????

2006-10-26 12:21:59 · 16 answers · asked by *stars* 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has cheated in the past. We have worked it out and been through counseling. He's been going out every Friday night - he PROMISES he's not doing anything wrong. My question is..... do I set him up by having a girl he doesn't know go where he's at and try talking to him, make passes at him, etc. I know I will run the risk of him cheating - but at least I would know if he really was committed to being with me only. If he cheats again he knows I am out of here, with the kids. He says he hasn't cheated in 4 years. Do I set him up? What are some of the things I should have the girl say or do to really put him to the test? And where in Gods name do I find someone willing to do something like this? Is there a business that does this kind of thing? I just don't want to waste anymore time with him, if he's not really going to stay faithful!

2006-10-26 12:21:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you mind if a woman has a small chest or are do you only like large chests? if a woman has a small chest and do you still get "turned on?"

2006-10-26 12:21:23 · 23 answers · asked by apples_and_bananas! 2 in Singles & Dating

I got married to my wife when she was not a Jehovah Witness. After 2 years she has become one. Her entire family members our Jehovah Witnesses and they disowned her when she was dis fellowshipped at the time we got together. They had nothing to do with us. We went through some hard times and my family was the one to help us out. We are now doing great until the announcement was made yesterday.. Now her family is calling wanting to all of the sudden be a part of our lives and I have some animosity towards them should I? She is so happy and I have a feeling they want her to be married to their own!! I could be wrong not sure though... Now when or if we have kids there won’t be any b-days or holidays that she will be involved in. I am so confused and this could be a devastating thing to our marriage if I can’t figure something out

2006-10-26 12:21:09 · 20 answers · asked by josephb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 12:21:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with my best friend. He's in love with a girl who's in a long term relationship. She doesn't requite his love for her and he would never make a move because he respects the fact that she'd in a relationship. This doesn't stop her taking advantage of my best friend's affections and treating him terribly. He's desperately unhappy and confides in me. He's recently become wise to this and has told me he is trying to get over her. He knows I'm in love with him. I told him three months ago. He doesn't return my feeling but he wants to remain best friends with me and we continue to spend loads of time together- going to the theatre, to the park, to museums... I dote on him. So what I want to know is; should I wait for him? Is it worth it? Do people change their feelings? Do you think he'll ever notice me? We're so similar. We're both in love for the first time.(We're neither of us teenagers btw, far from it.) I love him and would do anything for him. I'd wait years if I had to

2006-10-26 12:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you don't know what your HEART wants......if u don't know how you feel or what u want?

if u want you can answer my other questions to.

2006-10-26 12:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 12:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know him technically but I've refused to talk to him so far. He left my mother when I was a child for a member of our family. Since I've been 5 or so, whenever I see him or any of them, I pretend I dont. I escape confronting him. When he tries to talk to me, I act a certain way as if to show him I want nothing to do with him. I need to know if this behavior of mine is the right way to go about it. I really feel as though I don't need him in my life but I've been told I'd be better off if I at least spoke to him. What should I do?

2006-10-26 12:18:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been seeing this man for awhile, a year. He was supposed to come come into town and hang out today. He didn't come. No phone call to say he wasn't. WTF?! He recently just texted me to say hi and how was my day. He didn't even acknowledge the fact that he's blowing me off. I mean no big deal if something came up and he can't come..right?! But I at least I think I deserve a coursety call. Don't you think?

2006-10-26 12:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by mkupgrl0015 2 in Singles & Dating

at first when we started dating everything was perfect.i loved his personality.. we were online dateing.then i came down to New York to come see him and it was amazing.everything was perfect.
when i came back he started acting a little differently.. he gets really dramatic when we have tiny fights and we bring it past the point where it should normally end... we end up saying things like "i hate you" and "we shouldnt really be together anymore" but i know its just all the madness that makes you say things like that because you jsut want to hurt the other person because he/she hurted you.. also i feel like he deosnt care so much for me.. my feelings.. when i tell him something is wrong or if i am really upset about something, he gets offended and only hurts me more by throwing negative comments about me,
how can i make him respect me more? and appreciate being with me? He is a great guy when we arent fighting.. but i just want to know how to make him respect me more and feel for me.ty

2006-10-26 12:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Kim Buns 1 in Marriage & Divorce

arent they white people that jump people that ARENT white? .. to be blunt.. and they shave their heads?

im not sure so sure... and sorry about the wrong category.. i dint kno where this question went..

2006-10-26 12:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by Rhyhaina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girls are always hugging him whenever they met him!.... and he also accepts it... and he still got his X-Girlfriends pictures...

2006-10-26 12:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna get her something like flowers to make her feel special. Any ideas?

2006-10-26 12:15:42 · 15 answers · asked by Bratley G 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this is my friend's problem. She said she would go to formal with this guy, we'll call him Bob. So he really caught her offguard when he asked her and she's too nice, so she said yes, even though she doesn't really like him at all and actually wants to go with this other guy. Any suggestions on what she should do? She would post it herself, but she doesn't have an account.

2006-10-26 12:15:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I do one of these, she's going to but me an IPOD, she doesn't think I have the nerve:
1 week dressed as a nerd
1 week wearing a dog collar (visible) and a leash
1 week wearing a ape costume
Which should I do?

2006-10-26 12:14:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am nice try to be friendly with them ,but they don't get that i just want to be friend¬hing more.so how can i tell them enjoy the frienship more than anything!!!!

2006-10-26 12:14:21 · 12 answers · asked by ariel 1 in Friends

One year ago my EX lover cheated on me for money,did not call me for one year, he dissapeared to another country. Now he is back and expects me to be still his friend with benefits(loving). Should I be his friend? Or should I kick him to the curb?

2006-10-26 12:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by SweetALZENA 2 in Singles & Dating

i am about to break up with this guy cause he didint like me (long story) and now i want him tomiss what he lost how do i do that?

2006-10-26 12:14:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One year ago my EX lover cheated on me for money,did not call me for one year, he dissapeared to another country. Now he is back and expects me to be still his friend with benefits(loving). Should I be his friend? Or should I kick him to the curb?

2006-10-26 12:13:25 · 17 answers · asked by SweetALZENA 2 in Singles & Dating

we fight over it sometimes and it destroys us. i love my husband but i don't want to have anything to do with his son. what should i do to get over it?

2006-10-26 12:12:49 · 4 answers · asked by cool2b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please be HONEST!!!!!

2006-10-26 12:12:39 · 15 answers · asked by iamadam'sgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

If no what made you loyal and true?
If yes what happened that made you not faithfu?

2006-10-26 12:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it less of a date if we go for a coffee instead of a drink in a bar? It seems to me like she's trying to downgrade this encounter from date to friendly meeting. What do you think? Have any girls out there done the same?

2006-10-26 12:11:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that :( ....*rely sad* when u love someone.. so much u think they r ur everything.... n then u find out they think ur a ********* towards themmm.... idk how to feel but im rely sad... i thought i was giving him attention..... iono wat im trying to say lolz... just sad.. how shud i feel?

2006-10-26 12:11:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the problem is she have played with my feelings twice in my life, n now after saying yes to me for getting married, i have had she wants to settle overseas because her parents wants her to go there, and she is undecided despite explaining, and showing my lover to her. and i also have a problem, am a man of my words i mean the person who puts pride first. i mean i already have given the girl and the parents my word that no matter what will happen i'll marry her thou she loves me or not, so i have decided to make her run with me forcefully, as there is a saying if you love someone set it free and that's what happen she came back in my life second time and again undecided, and i only know my words and thou she may not be my destiny and happiness but still i want to do this pliz help me in giving your ideas and opinions. i know she might was thinking of compromising with me, as she wasn't able to get anyone from overseas as again she got a chance.

2006-10-26 12:10:36 · 5 answers · asked by sanjayfaith786 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And they think women are confusing! I've always kinda liked a co-worker of mine but wasn't able to express my feelings thinking 'what if he has a girlfriend' or 'what if he doesn't like me'. To my surprise (about a month ago) he expressed interest in me. After saying what he had to say..he also told me that he has a girlfriend. That was some disappointment. What confuses me is that even now he tells me things like...'I really like you' and 'this isn't just some harmless flirting' etc. He talks to me when he wants to and ignores me at other times. Seems like he wants to be with me but he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend either. He has talked about meeting me outside of work but that has never happened. He stood me up twice when I asked him to meet me. Just what exactly could be on his mind? I really like him too but I'm confused about what to do. Is he worth waiting for or am I just wasting my time on somebody who can't make up his mind?

2006-10-26 12:10:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like the more I give him sex maybe he will wake up and realize that I love him more than any one ever will, He is not perfect but he is the best man I've ever had, he saved me and helped and supported me through my recovery from addiction, but he says he still loves me but he's not "in- love" and he's not sure if he ever was, He also says that our sex together is the best he's ever had and that he had/has more feelings for me than he has ever had for any one in his past relationships. He says its him and not me, that he dosen't think he deserve to be loved. I still Love him something crazy, I can't move until spring cause we live in a little town and it will take me about 6 months to save up enough money to move, he says I can stay here as long as I need to and that its not another woman. I feel like: I'm good enough to sleep with but not good enough to love? some help plz. thanks.I do have 4 kids but none are by him. He ahs 2 girls and they come on the weekends, they adore me!?

2006-10-26 12:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by Missy S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships