One year ago my EX lover cheated on me for money,did not call me for one year, he dissapeared to another country. Now he is back and expects me to be still his friend with benefits(loving). Should I be his friend? Or should I kick him to the curb?
2006-10-26 12:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by SweetALZENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any respect for yourself....you already know the answer.
2006-10-26 12:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using you for "back up" Its not going to hurt anything by beind his friend, but i would make it a distant friendship. He doesnt sound trustworthy to me girlfriend. Listen to your heart, you already know the answer or you wouldnt be asking us. Right? Which thats what were here for, dont take that the wrong way, i'm just sayin, there is a question in your heart. Love has no questions. I'm sure you will make the right descision. Good Luck!
2006-10-26 12:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIM OUT OF THE CURB!!!!!!!u might think im crazy but no girl deserves a guy like him!!!!!!that just aint right what he did 2 u especially for the money now hes a dumb***!!!!!!!!for treating u like that
2006-10-26 12:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by lovingangel1215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be totally cold to him because then it will seem like you arent over it. and even if this is true, dont let him know that. just be polite to him but dont spend too much time on him or with him. happy, one word answers are good, and then you can "be busy" and go hang out with your friends and have fun or better yet meet some other guy who knows what a great catch you are. :)
2006-10-27 20:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb unless you like him because he only likes you for the money not who you are and might be a lazy person and make you do dirty work
2006-10-26 12:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by lil_kong2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious or asking a rhetorical question? If you kinda like being abandoned and alone, you got the guy there.
2006-10-26 12:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psh, he left he gets nothing. u can b friends as long as its nothing more. don't let him swoon u into more
2006-10-26 12:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋