I'm in love with my best friend. He's in love with a girl who's in a long term relationship. She doesn't requite his love for her and he would never make a move because he respects the fact that she'd in a relationship. This doesn't stop her taking advantage of my best friend's affections and treating him terribly. He's desperately unhappy and confides in me. He's recently become wise to this and has told me he is trying to get over her. He knows I'm in love with him. I told him three months ago. He doesn't return my feeling but he wants to remain best friends with me and we continue to spend loads of time together- going to the theatre, to the park, to museums... I dote on him. So what I want to know is; should I wait for him? Is it worth it? Do people change their feelings? Do you think he'll ever notice me? We're so similar. We're both in love for the first time.(We're neither of us teenagers btw, far from it.) I love him and would do anything for him. I'd wait years if I had to
2006-10-26 12:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change your feelings. As long as you are happy with the way your relationship works then stick it out. There may come a time when he realizes what he wants he's always had..... you.
2006-10-26 12:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, swallow your pride and tell him again and ask him autright if there is a chance for you two and if he says no move on I have done the same and have moved on but its tough.....more fish in the sea however i can't really find any but I'm old. If he still loves this other girl then it isn't a good time to get involved with him anyway as it would just be rebound and his love won't really be there. Wait out the storm and see what happens! I know its hard and if you distance yourself the ole saying might hold true.....distance makes the heart grow fonder.....quit e the doting!
2006-10-26 12:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by cshell442003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't change his mind. Hanging around waiting also won't help. You should date other people and see what else is out there, even if you still have feelings for him. Worst case, he doesn't ever care and you have the chance to find someone else. Best case, he takes another look at you and his feelings change. But it's unlikely. You really should date other people so you can find the guy who feels for you like you feel for him. He's out there.
2006-10-26 12:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love waits for no one.
Find someone who can give you back the emotional investment that you make.
If he was so unhappy he would leave his situation. He hasn't.
You deserve better.
2006-10-26 12:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...waiting is good. ppl do change. and nothin can stop u from loving him. but keep reminding him how u feel....but not TOO often.
2006-10-26 12:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time to get over his ex. He may get around to you yet.
2006-10-26 12:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait...move on
2006-10-26 12:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋