Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

weve all heard about wife beating, but men get beaten too, any other men out there who get beaten an what can be done.

2006-10-25 12:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I first had sex when I was 14, and ever since then it's been an uphill battle with me parents and therapists. Therapists don't help, and one actually felt me up. I need help getting rid of my old ways and my parents obviously aren't helping. I'm the school skank and want to earn myself some respect...what should i do?

2006-10-25 12:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been going out with this girl for little over a month. I know she likes me, her friends tell me that she talks about me all the time. I feel the same way about her. The only problem is that she always acts like she doesnt care about me. Like she never comes up to me in the halls, and she never calls me. I always have to walk up to her and start a convo, if not we would never talk. (and yes I am positive that she likes me, her bestfriend told me) Is this weird, is their anything I can do to make her be more interactive with me. Like call me and for her to actually start a conversation with me. any tips would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-25 12:32:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I Like but i dont want to go out with
Always talks to me we are really close
an he's in a realtionship an he likes me!
An he still talks to me an says he doesnt care
if she gets mad
im like ?!?!?!?! what shes your gf! you should care!
But its weird
when I had a boyfriend he would always get mad
for me an him talking all the time an stuff
an he has a girlfriend now an its the same thing.
its so weird.
we talk like no other
i know him sooo much
everything more then anyone knows him
same goes for me.
But the thing is i dont want to be with him
cuz i dont want a boyfriend
i just dumped mine like a month ago..
But why is he going out with her an not caring if she gets mad?
I mean i cared if my boyfriend got mad

2006-10-25 12:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 12:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by buster h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Marriages between sixteen and fifteen years.

2006-10-25 12:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by susan w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 32 and make really good money. My 19 year old brother is married and has a child. He is always asking for me to pay his bills for him, yet he finds money to get tattoos and eat out 3 or 4 times a week. I really want them to get out of debt and Im trying to help them but I feel like I am getting nowhere because he makes new bills every month. (credit cards, jewelry) I need to tell him I'm not doing it anymore without hurting his feelings. Any suggestions?

2006-10-25 12:29:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Seriously. My mother is mean and nasty, very impatient and we do not agree on anything. She has a nasty response for everything. She is condesending and confrontational. I find myself yes-ing her to death just to keep the peace. But I am tired of walking on eggshells. One major issue is that her and my dad are bankrolling everything. I'm in grad school and I don't have any money. Should I suck it up until after my wedding, or should I say something and run the risk of not having the wedding of the year?

2006-10-25 12:29:14 · 23 answers · asked by msmoonlite 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend for 3 months, is in the really depression right now. He has been perfect BF until his birthday more that a week ago. He got depresed ( midlife crisis) and blew off our date for last Sat. and refused to talk to me on the phone at all. I called to check on him and found out that he so deep in depression..doesn't want to talk to anyone at all ( I don't think he lied) and told me not to call anymore. I asked if he want us to end the relationship, he can't even answer that either ( I don't want to but will be fine ).He said he will call me if he feel better. I am not even sure he will call at all. And I am not the type that will dump him at this down time and move on. How long shoudl I wait ? - to move on or to call him? or what else you think I should do?

2006-10-25 12:28:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Firstly: "your girlfriend" doesnt mean you own her, shes your property or do you have a contract on her life!
Secondly this is a sign of passive emotional violence. (pretence)
Thirdly most women do this when they feel quite safe in relationship that your not going to leave her (testing you to see how you will react) (if you are Mr. Right or not) as an expression of anger they have towards all men as a gender for seeing little boys treated as first class citizens when tehy were younger.
Forthly: Males archtypical woman is build on Mum and mum was always nice, ( so we like plenty of nice and if were not getting it we will look elswhere for it. Fithly: Clever women foolish choices, clearly shes not that bright to realise all this will do is put you off her and you'll start look elsewhere.Sixthly: It's this emotional violence that make men impotent! Seventhly: No man willl put up with a womans crap no matter how beautifull she is.
Eigthly: Stop behaving like a wimp and geting sucked in

2006-10-25 12:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have kept it quiet for few months, but now I need to call for your help!!

My boyfriend still keeps his ex girlfriends stuff...
Here's a list of his possessions;
- Letters from exgf
- A pair of her socks (once he wore them to surprise me, thinking I'd find it funny....but no bloody way!!)
- Her pictures in everywhere (but not so visible)
- A letter from her school to her telling about her results etc.
- Her exam slip
- Her ID from high school(?)
- Few sheets for a double bed from the flat they used to share
...and there must be more which I don't know... (sigh)

Do many guys have this kind of habit, or is it just him?
Does it seem like he's not over his ex?

He asked me to share a flat with him, yet I don't want to move in if he's bringing all these relics into the new place...

Shall I just let him go with all these craps?

2006-10-25 12:28:17 · 3 answers · asked by Serenata 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you prefer tall men, and if so how important would you rate it in picking a boyfriend? How tall/short (compared to yourself) would a person have to be for you to discount them?

Same question for build. Skinny, fat, muscular, how important?

2006-10-25 12:28:02 · 17 answers · asked by sarciness 3 in Singles & Dating

My friends keep asking me if i want to go trick-or-treating with them this year but i don't know what to say cuz we're 15, i don't think thats exactly in the norm, is it?

2006-10-25 12:27:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-25 12:27:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does this mean?Iam a waitress and you know those aprons we have to wear with the pocket at the front to put your pad and pen?Well,this cook keeps on putting like tissue or ice in it for a joke.But he once said "shes my dustbin"(he cant talk very good english,hes french).I dont really mind it was funny at first but what does this mean?He also calls me baby sometimes is that just a french thing or an actual affectionate term?hes kinda hot xxxxx

2006-10-25 12:27:41 · 20 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

please help

2006-10-25 12:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was granted joint custody of our 3 kids.I was told by the judge that he does not have to give me the address to where he is staying,but he can take the kids Fri-Sun.providing ACS finds that it is a suitable environment for my kids.I am bothered by the fact of not knowing where my kids are for 3 days.As the custodial parent, dont I have that right?This is not a normal situation,due to the fact,that my husband is a mental patient suffering from Bi-polar disorder,yet I was told that he can keep his address confidential from me.

2006-10-25 12:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by princessl1172 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and kiss me.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER WAY ONLY on the cheek and calling me dad? My wife says she's happy when they kiss me and treat me like a dad

2006-10-25 12:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are trying to figure out which to use and wonder what other's are doing. We've been using condoms lately.

2006-10-25 12:26:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 12:25:48 · 19 answers · asked by mimooo 1 in Singles & Dating

he hasnt called and she wont call him she wont let me call him. so im worred that he moved on and she would be heart broken what do i do for her?

2006-10-25 12:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Gina 2 in Friends

2006-10-25 12:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Laurita y Marcial 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were together for 19 years and he cheated and now has a 10wk or so baby girl i thought i could do it but i could not, i did try. Then he took his paycheck and went to the casino for 2 days and gave them his money. When I asked him if he had any money left he said so so I said MOVE OUT. Maybe god does work in mysterious ways. I am very sad about the situation seems such a waist to throw it all away. But it is not the first time, or the 2nd or the 3rd or .... We can go up to 100+ and still need to keep counting. We have lots of stuff from our past that we keep throwing in each others faces... I am almost 40 and really did not feel like starting over again. I have had two kids and am not the nice young pretty that I used to be. At least I had someone to come be with at night. I do not want to be alone for the rest of my life. Did I do the right thing?????
Did I do the right thing.

2006-10-25 12:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by dmp1986 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 12:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by skruege6927 1 in Singles & Dating

im a virgin and have experimented a bit... i just wanted some fresh ideas .... like what household items i can use.... or other things

2006-10-25 12:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by princess_sexy_cory 1 in Singles & Dating

well i like my ex boyfriend ALOT! but there is one problem he hates me and he used to make fun of me real bad but now he doesnt he just doesnt bother wth me anway shud i tell him how i feel or keep it to myslef, i would tellh im but i dont know if he will tell everyone

2006-10-25 12:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well,im a teenager im 15years old every since i was 13years old i was feeling depressed when i was 13 i had a boyfriend that treated me like sh** and then he told said hurtful things to people about me.and now i found someone whom treats me right who loves and cares for me but he just moved... and i dont want kids because i would not make a good mother i just dont have a connection with kids... today my step father told me "i wont make a good mother because im not a good daugher". and he treats his kids like gold!he always looks down upon me..when i was 13 i put up with alot af things i made a big mistake and i wish i could change it.i wanna be happy.but right about now i judt dont know how to be...

2006-10-25 12:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We don't talk anymore. I miss her, her smell, her smile, everything. I would like someone to help me figure out something, I'd rather not ask a friend, I know what they're going to say. You think I should call her, I think she loves me also, it's just, well, we are both very hard headed. I know this is not the kind of advise one should get out of a stranger, but that's exactly what i'm trying, help me???

2006-10-25 12:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago, and over "I dont have enough time ; dance, school, etc." She does her dance 7 days a week almost so geuss it has some reason. But lately shes ben looking at me alot in the hallways, and on msn she makes an effort talks to me. I still like her and im wondering if i should ask her out again? (We dated for about 3 months b4)

2006-10-25 12:21:45 · 4 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

Well,Im horny and I want to think of something creative to suprise my husband with when he comes home from work,instead of just attacking him...any ideas??
please dont leave any rude comments!! i dont want anyone to ruin my mood.

2006-10-25 12:21:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce