This guy I Like but i dont want to go out with
Always talks to me we are really close
an he's in a realtionship an he likes me!
An he still talks to me an says he doesnt care
if she gets mad
im like ?!?!?!?! what shes your gf! you should care!
But its weird
when I had a boyfriend he would always get mad
for me an him talking all the time an stuff
an he has a girlfriend now an its the same thing.
its so weird.
we talk like no other
i know him sooo much
everything more then anyone knows him
same goes for me.
But the thing is i dont want to be with him
cuz i dont want a boyfriend
i just dumped mine like a month ago..
But why is he going out with her an not caring if she gets mad?
I mean i cared if my boyfriend got mad
2006-10-25 12:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously he wants you.... he probably just wants someone and he keeps trying to get with you in the mean time, he just wants @ss and thats why he is with that girl, hes just waiting for you until then and messing with her..
2006-10-25 12:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's lying he cares if she gets mad....don't let him use you he could be trying to make her jealous.. he still with her isn't he?? alot of these guys just like to play mind games just to see how far they could go....and if your not giving into him...that's just makin him want to pursue you more, ppl always want what they can't have, be careful with this dude! b/c the minute you give into him he's going to turn it all around and put it on you...and befor you know it you'll have yourself in so much mess it would be ridiculous! you need to ask him what is his motive for doing this....however i wouldnt get invovled with it your doing the right thing....b/c you don't want to end up in a big fight with his girlfriend over some stupid stuff that he's trying to pull.
2006-10-25 19:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two questions come to mind. If you did want a bf, could it be him? Also, if you did want a bf, would he drop his gf and want to be yours?
I would be willing to bet something is going on and its not just two people wanting to be friends. Is he trying to make her jealous and just using you? Are you close to him because you know he's safe (i.e., he has a gf)?
If you feel comfortable, somehow broach the subject with his gf. She probably has a lot of questions as well.
2006-10-25 19:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by cpaulw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't care if she gets the other girl mad? Eventually, if you go out with him.. even though you stated you don't, but I will warn you he will do the same thing to you. He doesn't care about girls, he's a player! Stay away from the drama it'll only make it worse!
2006-10-25 19:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to be thge bad guy. He wants to stay in touch for when he's done with her, because she's about lust and you are about love and he knows he'll be back, and so do you.
2006-10-25 19:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by jemrx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sees you as a friend and values your friendship...He doesn't care if she gets mad because as far as he is concerned, nothing is going on...
2006-10-25 19:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm let me think he wants a back up plan....he wants to be with you otherwise he wouldnt get jealous when your with other guys....but neway its good you guys have that friendship as long as he dosent interfere with your life and what you want he seems obsessive!!
2006-10-25 19:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by CONFUSED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, the guy is trying to make u jealus, so u go out with him. maybe hes just going out w/ someone so u will want to go out with him.
good luck
2006-10-25 19:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's trying to make you a f/w/b
2006-10-25 19:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO FOOL
2006-10-25 19:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋