I first had sex when I was 14, and ever since then it's been an uphill battle with me parents and therapists. Therapists don't help, and one actually felt me up. I need help getting rid of my old ways and my parents obviously aren't helping. I'm the school skank and want to earn myself some respect...what should i do?
2006-10-25 12:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seek professional helpl.Phycalogist may help.You may have an addiction
2006-10-25 12:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realizing you are heading down the wrong path is a great thing and you should be proud of yourself!
You should tell your parents about the therapist that felt you up. Talk to your mom. Tell her how you admit you did some wrong things and want to change. She loves you so much! Your dad loves you too, but you may feel more comfortable talking to your mom.
Please just lay it all down to her. She will help you. You probably need to get involved in school activities and clubs. You are so young - no one will remember what you did in the past. Just work on who you are now.
I think you just need a lot of love and you think you are not getting it from your parents.
Talk to your mom. I have a daughter, and if she ever came to me with this problem I would so embrace her and help her!!!!
I don't want to sound too "preachy", but God loves you too. He is your heavenly Father. Reach out to Him!
2006-10-25 19:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Agent99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats great that you want to change. For starters dont listen to any negative critisism. NO ONE is perfect and we must start new some where. Your actions will speak louder thatn words. Once you consistently carry yourself like a lady, demand respect, and dont take any crap, sorry for lack of better words, I think slowly things will change for you. If you believe, ask God to help you through this. Many people have changed their lives, like drug addicts, alcoholics etc, etc. Its possible try not to give up too soon and fight your cravings. I am sure you are a beautiful person on the inside. Stand up for yourself and what you believe in. Change is hard but I think it sounds like your on the right track. Good luck and God Bless !!
2006-10-25 19:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 step groups are great! Wow, I am really sorry that your therapist felt you up. You should report him or her so they can't do it to anyone else, and they will. You could go to 12 steps for compulsive behavior or something like that if they don't have 12 step for sex addicts. Get a book called, "Facing Love Addiction". Good luck. I know you can beat this.
2006-10-25 19:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you write MTV and try to get on the show "MADE". It's a good show, and it will help other students at school appreciate who you really are. Every one makes mistakes, Life goes on... Try my suggestion and see what happens. I can't tell you what to be made into. Sit and think for a while, I'm sure you will come up with something.
2006-10-25 19:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all begins in your mind.
Even though you are no longer technically a virgin you can certainly treat yourself as though you were.
You can start all over again and insist that boys treat you with respect.
At school it will eventually die down and just remember in a year or two you'll leave that school to go to college.
If you treat yourself with respect others won't have a choice.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-25 19:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. Sex is dangerous when it is outside of marriage...you seem to be addicted to it. Jesus is the only answer to these kinds of problems...He will give you the strength to resist if you ask Him. He loves you and has a plan for you and what you are doing can ruin your life. He wants better for you than that. Check this out:
http://www.chick.com/information/general/salvation.asp
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-sum/sum-f001.html
http://www.new-life.net/savesex.htm
I hope this helps you...God Bless!! :)
2006-10-26 16:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by jesus-lives! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.sexaa.org
www.sexaddict.com/Links.html
this one is for hurt and betrayed as well www.slaafws.org -
www.sarr.org/addicts/support_groups.htm
www.utin.org/slaa.html
www.sexhelp.com/links.cfm -
hw.healthdialog.com/kbase/shc/shc85.htm
providence.org/healthlibrary/contentViewer.aspx?hwid=shc85&...
and if none of those work try typing in sex anonymous groups
2006-10-25 19:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋