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weve all heard about wife beating, but men get beaten too, any other men out there who get beaten an what can be done.

2006-10-25 12:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Because of what you wrote on my answer!!! Suggestions for a girlie night out? A: Bingo and chips, coz my mum does it and she's past it too...not surprised you get slapped!

2006-10-26 11:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by untanuta 5 · 1 0

My Wife Beat Me

2016-12-11 16:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by puiatti 4 · 0 0

Beating in Quraan does mean "hit" but it differs from situation to another. There's an incident where Aisha disobeyed the prophet in one event and he was right while she was wrong, he took his stick and touched her on the arm, showing that he was not happy about it. You know that in Islam, a woman is damned if she disobeys her husband, but there are limits. This is where people mix up things and others get confused. It is clearly stated that disobeying a husband is wrong if the husband was right, for example if he told her not to go out with her friend (having a good reason) or other things. People take it that she has to be his slave which is not the case. Beating here also is the same concept. It is recommended for men to make it clear to their women that when they disobey, that they do not like it. They can either show it by giving them a look, or walking away or as it is stated to hit. Muhammad (PBUH) precisely answered the questions for some Muslims that the hit should not hurt, it should be just like a warning or a sign that the wife is wrong. The hit should not be to the face or any sensitive area. But yes, Daraba in Quraan means "beat" or "hit". Wallahu A'alam

2016-03-17 05:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She does it for the same reason a man beats a women....NO RESPECT for your spouse. I have had my ex hit me before....on time upside the toque with a frying pan...man that hurt...any way my advice to you is when she does it again restrain her with as much force as it takes so she can not harm you....then tell her one more time I am having you charged and removed from the house. I would also tell her that if she does not seek help with her anger problem then you will be filling for a divorce. Personally....having been there done that....I would just go for the divorce now but I get the impression that you would like to try and work this out.
DO NOT allow her to hurt you anymore...and if you can not restrain her then just call the police. I do know what you are going through as most people find it funny when a man gets a smack from his wife...we are raised to be tough...and not hit a women ect..but it makes no difference who is hitting who...its wrong.

2006-10-25 13:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0 0

Are you being serious? I will tell you the same thing I tell the women, get out now! That having been said, you should grow a pair, and stand up for yourself. How could you let your wife beat you. Women do not have a choice. Unless you are a total wimp, you do have a choice.

2006-10-25 12:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 3 · 2 0

A friend of mine's son was in that type of situation. His wife left bloody marks on him and she would lie and try to get him arrested because it's more believable for the wife to cry abuse. He finally divorced her and is remarried and is now very happy (he is no longer in the same state as the psycho ex-wife). My advice, please leave this women. You don't deserve this. I was in an abusive relationship myself. It's hard because you think you love the person, but inflicting any form of abuse on someone isn't love. Good luck to you.

2006-10-25 13:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what did u do to deserve a beating, maybe it's all ur fault?
and women like to dominate men, like they're dead puppets, didn't u know?
i bet she loves u anyway, it's just the way she is, if u don't like it, talk to her and solve the problem.
be nice to her or she'll get madder.
now that was a SMART answer.

2006-10-26 12:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by iamadam'sgirl 1 · 0 0

your wife has no respect for you,you're letting her walk all over you, I don't think a man or a women should beat each other.
If I were you I would move out,try to get some counseling for her
if that doesn't work,then maybe you should move on

2006-10-25 12:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by msalb 3 · 0 0

Leave before the neighbors call the police and haul YOUR butt to jail! If it hasn't happened yet, cops have to take someone in and almost always the guy!
No loving relation should have abuse involved!

2006-10-25 19:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0 0

I may not be a guy but if I were you I'd see about getting a class in some form of defense class or something.See a counsellor about this.

2006-10-25 12:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by B J 2 · 1 0

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