2006-10-25 12:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by skruege6927 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be hard, but if the two of you are willing and really want to be together, then you can make it work. Just give it a try, and i'm sure you'll learn to love her AND her kiddos. Just remember, they come as a package, and she is not going to be able to dedicate as much attention to you as someone otherwise single would. So, be sensitive to her situation, and i'm sure all will work out. It's not easy raising children alone, and single mothers need love too!
2006-10-25 12:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Do you have intentions of getting to know her for a long term thing that may turn into marriage? Can you deal with her having four kids? You would be a father figure to these children, regardless to if their real father is in the picture or not. It's probably worse if he isn't. Do you want kids with her, and is she willing to have more? A lot to take into consideration when you enter a ready made family. Make sure you have good intentions and can see this going places. You don't want to hurt those kids.
2006-10-25 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if her children are well behaved or not. If not, that means she doesn't have control of them or her life. You don't want to get stuck with BaeBae's kids, do you??? Go out once or twice and invite the children to go along with the two of you. I bet you will find the answer really fast.
2006-10-25 12:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first time dating a woman with multiple kids?
2006-10-25 12:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you see it going somewhere other than the bedroom. also, try going out with her for a while, and dont be introduced to her kids yet untill you can tell if its serious. and then after that, only if you can be a positive influence, and dont try to be mr move in dad to the kids.
2006-10-25 12:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are prepared to spend a lot of time with them all as a family !
2006-10-25 12:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!its a huge decision to make.think about all the responsibilties that comes with it.if you are ready to take on that role after weighing all and really thought deep,why not,go for it.
2006-10-25 12:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by spunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, but really you can't find a woman with afew less kids?
2006-10-25 12:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your Best answer- with 4 kids- RUN!!!!
2006-10-25 12:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if u like a ready-made fam. & all the implications thereof.
2006-10-25 12:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋