Do you prefer tall men, and if so how important would you rate it in picking a boyfriend? How tall/short (compared to yourself) would a person have to be for you to discount them?
Same question for build. Skinny, fat, muscular, how important?
2006-10-25 12:28:02 · 17 answers · asked by sarciness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im short, 5ft 2" but have always been drawn to much taller men although I haven't really looked for a tall man as such. I suppose its to do with feeling safe and protected so I have usually ended up with a man of at least 5' 10" and well built. Not fat or muscly, just a little stocky. If I met someone very special with a wonderful personality his height wouldn't really matter but hasn't happened yet.
2006-10-25 12:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys at least my height that are skinny with lean muscle. I myself am 5'7 and 125 pounds and my current boyfriend is 5'7 and a half and 140 pounds.....all my exes have been at least 6 foot tall. It would just feel odd dating someone shorter than I was because I want that feeling sometimes like my man can protect me and I don't think I'd get that from a shorter guy. I also can't stand big muscles (i'm not talking a want a scrawny guy but no steriods or gym freaks). And chunky guys make me want to hug them, but not date them. I know, flame me. >_< But I'm not going to date someone I'm not physically attracted to because it would affect how I viewed the relationship.
2006-10-25 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by randompersoness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big, big and big. lol. For me, he would have to be tall, 6ft plus, for build, big...what can I say? ummmm, stocky would be ok, few extra pounds would be cuddly, muscles maybe just a few in the right places. Nice sparkly eyes, smooth calming tone to his voice, able to listen...........oops sorry, getting carried away!!! Basically, it ain't all about looks really, that would be the basics for me, but heh we're all yummy and beautiful inside, so I guess that's what should count, and i'd go for a guy who is witty, charming, happy go lucky, sensitive, caring, kind..........getting carried away again aren't I? I still didn't answer the question properly - he'd have to be taller than me, i'm 5ft 9 I couldn't be with a shorter man, as I'd probably start stooping, and he'd need to be a good couple of inches taller so I could wear heals! OK i'm tired and nattering..........think I've answered the question.
2006-10-25 12:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im totally height-ist!!! got a thing about short men.. i go for men at least an inch or 2 taller than me in heels. cant stand them being short, i get a complex! im 5ft 4.. so taller men isnt that hard to find. have found that short me have short man syndrome and are kinda mouthy cocky or arrogant cos theyr not taller enough so argue insted! not all.. some!)
and a man that looks after himself is a must.. no fattys.. beer guts shud not exsist! skinny... do some weights, eat some protein!
god im shallow...
2006-10-25 13:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by bubblestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Height and build is of no account to me...... sounds corny but personality all the way for me.
Of course there has to be a physical attraction but couldn't say that a certain build or height would ensure that physical attraction.
2006-10-25 12:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like them with a little muscle not steirode looking, i like some visible abs it doesnt have to be a full on six pack or even a four pack absolutelu love the bones that show when a guy has a flat stomache. the ones that lead down. that is so hot. and atleast and 1inch and a half taller than me i wnat to feal protected. ( im 5'3 its not hard to be taller than me)
2006-10-25 12:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tall men are definatelly the thing for me and they must have a bit of meat on them.no girl wants to wake up on a fat day next to a bfriend who is skinnier tahn her.so wrong!
2006-10-25 12:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by leterinbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight off i'd say he's got to be taller and broader than me, but that said it all comes down to the individual, enchanting eyes, quirky humar , big smile......
2006-10-25 12:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5'8, 135lbs----so i like my man to be at least 5'11 and at least 180lbs, I dont like super built guys, but i like a little bit of defined muscle. I also like Stocky guys like chunky, and big but not flabby. I like thick guys with a nice firm but. LOL yep. I like them usually around 6'1 or 6'0
2006-10-25 12:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter..the heart is what counts BUT he should be attractive to ME...and trust me it varies.
2006-10-25 12:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋