Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

My grandson's BIRTH mother is suing for his custodety, but I know she doesn't want it..., She's pretty sure she can get it! She's told my grandson repeatedly she doesn't want him... She's worn him down and is guilty of both physical and mental abuse (not so much as my son, who died this morning from a police shootout - see prev. question if u want details), and he was adopted at five years of age by my son who abused him, then I took custodety of him and he's been fine. How do I stop her from getting her hands on him? He is 17 - what should I do? She's also been an unfit mother to two other children (both boys, one sixteen and one fifteen) but she has a defenite "in" with the court, so to speak.

2006-10-20 04:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa X 1 in Family

What movie should i see after school today with my friends

2006-10-20 04:54:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anthony A 1 in Friends

My son has been going to senior school on the buses now for 6weeks, I cannot let him go on his own just yet, I have seen the nasty cruel kids that travel the buses, the gangs that pick on the kids that travel alone, I know I have to let him go at some point but when, when would It be right to, when would it be safe enough, I just cant see me being able to say goodbye at my front door and just hope and pray he made it to school and then home again, he is so special and such a good kid with a big heart, he would not hurt a fly but he can stand up for himself if provoked but these gangs dont do one on one fighting they do ten on one. I dont want him hurt and I dont want to be saying to myself 'I wish I never', the world has changed so much since I went to school even though I do pride myself in knowing what is happening out there, I do NOT wrap him up in cotton wool I am not one of those mums I just want him to be safe. Any advice please but you must understand what I am talking about!

2006-10-20 04:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have been married for over 18 years been together for over 20 year with 2 sons ages 18 and 7 . i wonder if this is just a token

2006-10-20 04:53:28 · 23 answers · asked by daber m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my mom's body is crazy because with all her kids she had her period when she was pregnate so i was wondering.....could it be the same for me????

2006-10-20 04:53:28 · 14 answers · asked by Meme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you know what the right reason is? How do we tell whats right from what is wrong and how do we love?

2006-10-20 04:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend (earlier was my best friend) are starting fresh with our friendship because we were not so nice to each other in the past... all about jealousy. She was jealous of me but I dont know if she still is. I really want to make this last, so can you please give me some tips about what shall we do, and for her to make me more interested in her too, and give me some tips about what fun things we can do together...and can you please tell me when someone is being too clingy and when you can get on her nerves.....???

2006-10-20 04:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Friends

My husband and I have been married three years and got into an argument this morning. He has never hit me until today, and he bloodied my nose. I don't understand this reaction from him and wouldn't say I am in an abusive marriage but this has really shocked and hurt me. Is this abuse? Should I leave him for this?

2006-10-20 04:52:55 · 12 answers · asked by stacye5398 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wondering if any bored housewives read this stuff and would like to have some fun email exchange wih me to put a little excitement into our days.

2006-10-20 04:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by mecoachyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we want to renew our wedding vows.

Other then a registary office or church, is there any where ele in the uk that we could renew our vows? also if you want to renew them in the church you got married in,how do you go about doingthis? and how much does it cost?

Also can we do it just us or do we have to have witneses?

Thanks Louise xx

2006-10-20 04:52:27 · 4 answers · asked by uklady26 1 in Weddings

2006-10-20 04:52:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you had 5 days to get away with your husband of 10 years, where would you go? why?
Please help me, I am planning a first/2nd honeymoon for a lovely couple who have been married 10 years.

2006-10-20 04:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by worldstiti 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i think its love.... and i know he is older but we really like each other.. but we have never really been that public about it...He doesnt want to get into trouble due to age difference..!

2006-10-20 04:51:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe it's my age, in my early 20's, but I can't seem to meet a faithful man who doesn't cheat. Where is a good place to meet one? If you have a good man now, where did you meet yours?

2006-10-20 04:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by jbvo 2 in Singles & Dating

help states that on the personals home page there is a link to billing info in the middle of page...sorry no such link. If you subscribe you have no way to cancel subscription. Nice ! Real nice!

2006-10-20 04:50:35 · 1 answers · asked by steve 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now?

2006-10-20 04:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you in fact feel really good just to be alive? I certainly hope so. Be kind to your fellow man. Always keep your humor, and be the best you can be. Help someone out today. Stay safe, stay healthy, stay happy. Peace to all of you. Sincerely Jerry

2006-10-20 04:49:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always seen women in movies that wear no panties under their skirt or pants...do you women really do this or is this something that's just for tv? If yes why do you?

2006-10-20 04:48:03 · 43 answers · asked by sexxxyback76593 1 in Singles & Dating

So when two men marry, whose surname do they take? Or do they keep their original surnames? Not being funny here, I'm actually genuinely curious.

2006-10-20 04:47:57 · 4 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi...as you can see I'm confused. Don't know what to do. I live in Ireland and I'm going out with someone I have a good job and anyone looking at me would think I'm sorted for life but I'm not.

I lived abroad for 2 years and was going out with a guy there for a year and a half and I still love him and want to be with him, but there's no life over there. Unemployment is high so the standard of living is not great. We speak often and e-mail each other and he still loves me but he won't move over to Ireland because he has his own restaurant over there.

I don't know what to do. The guy I'm seeing the past 5 months is great but I don't love him.

What should I do?

2006-10-20 04:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Ms Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I have seen billboards but I do not want to call every Lawyer in town

2006-10-20 04:47:10 · 2 answers · asked by Melody C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend from college that I knew pretty well. We worked several late nights in the labs together. Anyway, I talked to her the most of anybody there! I called her after that to set up a time to hang out and catch up. She called back to say she wants to also. Since then, we have been in constant contact about setting up a time to meet, and we are meeting this weekend. We talked for half an hour yesterday concerning where to meet and when as well as other things. We decided to meet before the game, walk to the game, and hang out while there. What are her likely feelings towards me?

2006-10-20 04:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 04:44:26 · 34 answers · asked by stevi c 1 in Family

(by the way, i'm not saying that any other type of man isn't....just that black guys are incredibly so!)

2006-10-20 04:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by mysterious_gal1984 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he stares at me and smiles or looks away really quicklyyyy and dosent talk to me ever but i think he likes me and his friends always look at me what should i do i need flirting tips i dont want to ask him out there

2006-10-20 04:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found this posting on a website :

" Now I have seen and heard it on TV and even in BN that marrige is a joke. I say it's a lie and that Marrige takes hard work and must involve two loving people ready to give their all and neither cannot be out for themselves.Speak out all married people. "

I have read some of the responses people gave this person. I am getting married in april and would love to hear from people in yahoo answers.

thanks

2006-10-20 04:44:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And then it just turns into a disaster? I am always trying to think of things to do with the family and places to go and something always goes wrong. It just makes me want to stop doing nice things for people. I offered to have a Halloween party at my house this year and hopefully that will go well.

2006-10-20 04:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by Virginia Gal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do long distance relationships work I am moving to arkansas and my boyfriend is staying in texas?

2006-10-20 04:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by rachie girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 04:43:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kino C 1 in Friends

This is a follow up question re: ending a three year relationship with a married woman that was not sexual but consisted of heavy petting.

2006-10-20 04:43:30 · 5 answers · asked by stalin lager 2 in Other - Family & Relationships