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Maybe it's my age, in my early 20's, but I can't seem to meet a faithful man who doesn't cheat. Where is a good place to meet one? If you have a good man now, where did you meet yours?

2006-10-20 04:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by jbvo 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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There is not "good place" to meet a man who doesn't cheat. People in general cheat and there is no stomping grounds where they all go. So you just have to deal with the cards dealt. Im in my early 20s and I don't think age has much to do with anything, it's the person.

2006-10-20 04:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by DLB 4 · 0 0

There is no such place. You can meet the man of your dreams anywhere ( the store, at work, the laundry mat, etc.). Stop looking. Let him find you. It's just a fact, some men don't want to be faithful, and then there are those that know when they have the real thing, they don't want to do anything to mess that up. Use this time to develop yourself into the real thing. Every woman wants that faithful, honest, committed man, but alot of women(not saying you) don't know how to appreciate those type of men. They want to run the show and not let the man be the man. Some women don't know how to humble themselves, they have to always act like they are the man. Just like women are looking for faithful men, men are looking for faithful women, and they do weight their options to see who is the real thing. Because there are alot of women playing the game too.
Look at this as a blessing to find out now, who is playing games, so you don't waste your time, and possibly miss the man of your dreams. But, you really won't know, until you get to know people. NOT SLEEP WITH THEM. Get to know them. We as women are emotional, so don't let emotion cloud your judgement, when you see that 6 ft, fine, sexy man that make you say ah.
Looks can be deceiving. So don't look at the outside, get to know people to find out what's in the inside. He'll come to you, when you lease expect it.
I met my faithful guy at work, we were just co-worker friends, nothing else. After about a year of just friendly co-worker conversation, we grew an attraction to each other, and the rest is history. We've been together 5 years now. The key word was, we were FRIENDS first.

2006-10-20 05:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0 0

In your dreams and sometime they cheat in there too. But no for real there are some good men who will not cheat on you but there is no one place to go and find them. Cause you can run into them at the gas station or anywhere you just have to take them as they come and learn and grow from each experience. Never take what the last man did to you out on the next man because they are all different.

2006-10-20 04:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0 0

I met my husband on a blind date and we've been married 12 years. He's a faithful man, and I don't worry about trust issues with him. We met when we were 21 so you will find someone.

The thing now a days is that the younger guys have been wronged by so many women (for example: Maury povich who's my baby daddy type shows) that they think all women are unfaithful tramps when thats not the case.

Don't worry, good things come to those who wait. And remember, you'll kiss plenty of cheating frogs before you find a prince.

Good luck!

2006-10-20 04:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 0 0

You need to watch for clues to a man's character. If a man cheats in school, and pilfers from his employer, he'll probably cheat on you as well.

Maybe, you keep running into cheaters, because that bad boy stuff attracts you. I might qualify. If you check out my blog, you'll see what I mean. I'm mischievous, but I don't steal, and I would never cheat on a woman.

Whatever a man does, consider what that says about his values.

2006-10-20 05:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0 0

i used to have the same problem, i'm 22. so i went for someone who was already passed all that B.S. he is 27, and does anything i ask. i met him thru fate. he was a friend of someone who had been in a car accident with my sister. a really bad car accident. we started going to the hospital together to see the injured, then we chilled together for about a year before we got together. he has a son already, but it's ok cause i'm not ready to have my own kids and he is old enogh to want kids. well, it works out in a way. very little baby-mama-drama. so i say spring for a few years older, when they are more settled. Good Luck!

2006-10-20 04:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LOL
Where's a good place to meet women who wont screw your bestfriend and drain your bank account..

See how stupid that sounds ..There is no secret place to go where every man or woman is perfect..

Just look around.. There are honest men at a strip club and dirty ones at a church ..It's just life

2006-10-20 04:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0 0

There is no once place to go to meet these kinds of men. It is just luck of the draw, it probably has to do with your age, the kind of men you are attracted to etc. My mum used to say "It will happen when you least expect it" and that exactly what happend. Good luck...

2006-10-20 04:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0 0

if you go to any event that nerds and goofballs go such as sci-fi expos, you will find a lot of faithful men that don't cheat. i know a lot of nerds and geeks that never been kissed and seem weird but actually deep down inside they are faithful, nice guys.

give it a try! you've got nothing to lose but everything to gain.

these nerds and geeks are faithful guys because girls don't dig them and when a girl is into them, they will appreciate and be faithful to her! good luck!

2006-10-20 05:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0 0

Girl you may have to go to sleep, cause all the walking, talking ones I've encountered all cheat =( When you find one, let me know if he has a brother!

2006-10-20 04:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0 0

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