if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now?
2006-10-20 04:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you would be to seek professional help. Therapy is probably needed as you are absolutely obsessed with this. You've posted it over and over again.
talk to a psychiatrist
2006-10-22 07:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by menahmenahmenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This female isn't happy she made a decision in haste. She might be calling him because she feels guilty after all she did cheat on him.Females can act completely happy and he torn up inside.You already know how you can tell she is making the phone calls right.She doesn't want to be alone as you stated the ex isn't given her the time of day so she is holding on to you. If in the event he does come around you might be history.
2006-10-20 11:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking out of a girl's perspective, yes, unfortunately girls can act all happy, although they are torn inside. The fact that she is phoning him every couple of weeks are not your biggest worry though, the fact that she didn't tell you however, is concerning. Look, when asked directly, you may get the answers and peace you seek. We can all guess, but she is the only one who can really tell you what's up.
2006-10-20 11:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Freedomjoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is not over him. It also sounds like you are her rebound relationship and that might not be so good.
Yes, girls can act like everything is wonderful and it not be true.
If she has not told you about calling her ex then it would not be good for you to confront her on it. You might want to have a serious discussion with her about how she feels about your relationship and where she sees it going.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-10-20 11:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!! Run as fast as you can from this person. Don,t look back don,t accept her calls and don,t see her ever agian. Unless of course you like being a fool?
2006-10-20 11:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dumped him??
I think what she really wanted was some time out.
Obviously, things haven't gone how she planned.
2006-10-20 12:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt content. you need to talk to her what is going on, she may not be over her ex, though it seems he is over her
2006-10-20 11:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now before you get hurt.
2006-10-20 12:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by mb_conda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋