Me and my friend (earlier was my best friend) are starting fresh with our friendship because we were not so nice to each other in the past... all about jealousy. She was jealous of me but I dont know if she still is. I really want to make this last, so can you please give me some tips about what shall we do, and for her to make me more interested in her too, and give me some tips about what fun things we can do together...and can you please tell me when someone is being too clingy and when you can get on her nerves.....???
2006-10-20 04:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, be sure you both want this.
Then agree to sit down and talk to each other, honestly.
Agree some ground rules about how you will talk to each other if things start to feel wrong between you, and how often you are going to see each other. Decide if there are likey to be some things that you would be better doing apart, with other friends, especially if there are some things she likes to do and you don't, or vice versa.
I think, too, you need to understand what the things were that got in the way of you being friends before, and decide between you how to make sure that you can safely get round those things in the future.
Honestly, the only way is to talk - together, about what you both want, and what your expectations are of each other and of the relationship.
Good luck
2006-10-20 05:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think someone is too clingy then you cant have a best friend, best friends share everything and would never mind them being around.
Your asking for tips on how to find her interesting, sounds to me like you two have absolutely nothing in common if you are looking for things in her.
This friendship isnt right, it wont work.
2006-10-20 12:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by jenna p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's no good to tell you.. what i like.. or what i will do in your place...or do certain things together ....
It wont work .unless ..we all like the same things...
but in any friendship if you want it to flourish and be everlasting ..there are some rules..be honest and true to one another..be there when friend is in need ..and always respect one another..
You do these and you got a friend for life
2006-10-20 14:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliments, just keep complimenting her and making her feel like shes special and therefore having no need to feel jealous about you. go to the pictures or shopping sprees together - tell her this and that suits her. be friendly to her as you would normally do but dont phone her every day, if she becomes annoyed with you then take a step back or she will, she will eventually begin to ignore ur phone calls and make excuses etc....
2006-10-20 12:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly taking it slow...spend -some- time together...let her know how much you enjoy hanging out with her...but let her approach you as many times as you are asking her to go out and do things. It's a reciprocal relationship. Then you will both be able to enjoy eachother and share your friendship!
2006-10-20 12:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be to in her face. give her space and suggest a few idea's to her. try being original, it usually works. if you have your own plans, invite her to come along. ask her if she would like going shopping, cinema, for a trip, visiting. ask her for a piece of advice. women know more than men and would gladly give an opinion.
2006-10-20 12:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋