We were together a year. We shared a connection that was very real. He told me he didn't think we should see each other anymore about a week ago, but I didn't get real closure. It was totally unexpected. He left some things kinda up in the air, like whether we should be friends or ignore each other. Neither one of us could imagine never speaking again... the word "goodbye" couldn't be spoken by either one of us. I sent him a note the day after, and he responded with, "I would LOVE to speak to you, I care about you & how you're doing, but for now, I think it's best we don't. As a father I have to do this." See, his ex wants him back. He's said he knows it will never work, but she's threatening him & playing headgames & he's confused. We used to share EVERYTHING. I'm grieving right now, & the thing I miss most is our phone conversations (it was a LDR). I am so tempted to call him, but I know I shouldn't. How do I stop myself from contacting him during my weak moments?
2006-10-19
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