Tell him to get help or your leaving and he cant see the boys. Do you want your boys to see that?? Pretty soon he's gonna start steling to get high you know this s h i t go. You gonna have to sleep with your purse under your pillow. The kids in the hood gonna laugh and make fun of your boys. Also by staying with him, you are going to send the message that doing drugs is acceptable behavior and there are no consequences. You better worry more about your kids than anyone else even BEFORE YOURSELF. So what you love him!! There are good men out there that dont do drugs who will love you and your kids. PRAY !! If you really want him and love him and cant stand to be without him, then love him from a distance kick him out or you leave. Tell him you can have a "friendship" and you and the boys will be there to support him while he gets help. Allow him to come over for dinners and outings while he gets better. If theu boys ask why is daddy gone away, tell them daddy is "sick" and went away to get help. Please, please do something, either help him from a distance, or kick him out your life all together.
2006-10-19 05:02:52
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answered by ? 3
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There's nothing you can do - he has to decide that he wants to quit...
Don't enable him though.....you have 3 kids together - what were you thinking doing cocaine with him! Get out and take your kids with you...they don't need to be raised or be subjected to what addicts to.
Unfortunately he will probably wait until he loses you and his family, and everything else important to him, before he gets the help he needs.
2006-10-19 05:05:09
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answered by brenny_boo 3
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The kids may love their daddy, but he's not good for those kids right now. Kids learn from examples set by their parents. If you don't want your kids to end up the same way you shouldn't let him be a part of their lives until he's clean. Plus if he keeps it up he will wind up dead.
2006-10-19 05:47:52
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answered by green eyed lady 3
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You are thinking that having a crack-head as a part of you children's lives maybe a good thing? Read what you just wrote and I think you will answer your own question.
2006-10-19 04:58:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Nothing will change until someone intervenes or he decides to get help on his own . I'm a recovering Alcoholic , 5 Yrs. sober .
2006-10-19 04:59:05
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answered by Geedebb 6
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It means does not love the children, differently it would find pleasure in dialogue with them, instead of various muck. That children did not see bad, you should leave it, it not the man.
2006-10-19 05:01:34
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answered by fiery d 1
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He has to be willing to stop on his own. I doubt there is much you can say to make him stop. If push comes to shove, you can stop him from seeing the kids until he gets it under control.
2006-10-19 04:57:03
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answered by JC 7
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Dont do this by urself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU NEED HELP. you cant handle this situation alone. But also it may be hard to understand but if he doesnt want to be rid of his addiction it ll always be there
2006-10-19 05:01:21
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answered by dilemma 2
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