Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I have a friend who got engaged several months ago, but she doesn't seem to be doing anything to plan the wedding. I would like her to have a great wedding, from the admittedly selfish standpoint that I would like to attend a nice party with lots of people, good food and drinks, etc. How can I get her excited about taking this opportunity to have a great party?

2006-10-19 04:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 in Weddings

Hi, so I dropped a selfish friend because all he did was use me from the get go. You know the kind of friends that take and never give? Yep that was him. Never helped to pay the rent or the bills, and almost got me kicked out of my apartment. So the other day I erased his pics from my computer, which lead to some pics being erased from his myspace page. You know what he did last night after I told him not to call me ever again? He called and said this: "you KNOW who this is. Thank you for erasing my ******* pictures..." I didn't let him finish I hung up on his ***. He wasn't a real friend in the first place, and a friend don't talk to you in a disrespectful way and take advantage of you. Anyway, what do you feel about this situation. Any answers are welcome. I just wanted to say that I'm glad I threw him out of my life, he still needs to grow up. I think someone may have to kick his *** for him to WAKE UP.

2006-10-19 04:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not one of the girls who goes out to a bar and brings no money, I try and see things as they are and not over dramatize them. My guy friends say I would make the greatest girlfriend....but for some reason my girls who are over flirtatous and money grubbin' get the guys. I understand that not all these guys are grade A but some of them are....

I understand guys are out there to enjoy their life and just go with it. So when is it that guys start looking for that lady, one they can be friends with and date, have fun...AND take home to mom and dad?

Riddle me that...lol

2006-10-19 04:48:57 · 6 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 04:48:28 · 3 answers · asked by tagi_65 5 in Family

How should I get them checked out? it has been 2 yrs since she had her last baby.

2006-10-19 04:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by lionaness813 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

where can we do both at once besides Vegas?

2006-10-19 04:48:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My best friend is a girl (we are 15, im a guy). Everyone is always asking if we are going out or saying I like her or she likes me, theres almost always a rumor going round. Why is this? Does boy/girl best friends always look like this? We are both single if that matters.

2006-10-19 04:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a nut shell, my boyfriend has a history of lying to me. We went to counselling and he promised that he would change. Our relationship grew and got better over time. Now I founded out that he cheated on my 2 weeks ago. Should I forgive him again or should I go my way?

2006-10-19 04:46:14 · 48 answers · asked by Christine H 1 in Friends

I will not stand back and let him live the good life wile my daught and my hole family for that matter suffer. I want him back i want him to pay and most importatly i never want this to happen to a nother child please help

2006-10-19 04:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by corriem 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my husband for 20 years. We have been together for 18 years and we have been married for 15 years. We have 2 boys. (13 & 8) I love him very much but I don't think he loves me as much as I love him. I know he loves me and he is a good man but I don't know if that is enough for me. Am I just being childish and selfish? I would do anything for him but I know for a fact that he would not do the same for me. Any good advice out there?

2006-10-19 04:46:11 · 23 answers · asked by missmyluke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, mine is, today after school, when we were in the hall, our english teacher was looking for me and another girl. He went up to a guy that used to be in our class and asked where we were. The guy said that we were ****ing in the girls bathroom (we are 15). This guy used to be in our english class but isnt now, his friend, whom still is in our english class,started laughing his a s s off. It was he who a weeks detention, and not the guy who said it. lol.

2006-10-19 04:45:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i told him that if he moves we should seperate, because we would moving backwards in life. Also things havent been great with us. Do we stay together, how do i make him change his mind? He says that its his decision to move, and if i want to break up thats my decision not his, but i feel its a way to blame it on me somehow help

2006-10-19 04:45:34 · 16 answers · asked by lablanca15 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 04:43:58 · 24 answers · asked by sexxi_babe 1 in Friends

I really like this guy and i don't know how to make the first move!! NEED HELP! PLEASE GIRLS (or guys)!!!!

2006-10-19 04:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 04:43:38 · 2 answers · asked by SG 4 in Friends

2006-10-19 04:43:31 · 4 answers · asked by skirtman29505 1 in Singles & Dating

So...bedroom antics...some women like to be dominated, some like plain old fashioned eye to eye contact and gentleness, some like it rough, some like to be treated like a whore bent over a chair.......
I prefer women who like it to be equal, they can also at times take control!

Any Views....

2006-10-19 04:42:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a year and a half long relationship, and moved to a new town. I feel lonely. Is a dating service like "Its Just Lunch"
a bad idea or would it help me meet new people with out having to go to the bar scene?

2006-10-19 04:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy, but I like this other guy. What do I do?

2006-10-19 04:41:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-19 04:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 04:40:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known this man about 2 years, and he has been coming over my husband and my house for about a year now. He has never shown us any pictures of his family. He has been living with this woman for about 12 years. She cheated on him about 2 years ago. He went back because they have a 12 year old child together. He told me that he didn't trust her, he wasn't in love with her, and that they have nothing in common. He then married her about 2 months ago. He didn't tell me, another friend told me. When I asked him, he said that he forgot to tell me, yet we had seen each other the day before the other friend told me. He said that he got married for the children. What is your opinion on this? What advice do you have for me? I have feelings for him, but I'm married. What do you think?

2006-10-19 04:40:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When she's in love how does she act? (Facial expressions, talking, actions, smiles, etc.)

I just wondered. It is interesting!

2006-10-19 04:40:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Kinky; plain; or just twisted?

2006-10-19 04:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by bettiewoeswoes 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister, a friend and I signed a 18 month lease. 7 months into it our friend decides he want to move out and says he is no longer going to pay rent. I want to know what is the leagal way to go about getting he portion on the rent?

2006-10-19 04:40:14 · 2 answers · asked by steelers_number1fan_420 1 in Friends

I know this guy who loved me before but I never minded him, now I'm the one who loves him... He's my best buddy and I consider him as my brother, same goes with him for me, but I dont know if he still loves me, becuase he is courting this new girl, and it looks like he loves her very much, because he's giving everything for that girl. What to do? I'm just 13, dont even know how to react on it... Help me!

2006-10-19 04:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Chippy_girl 1 in Friends

what is the best definition of LOVE?

2006-10-19 04:39:49 · 19 answers · asked by anne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend smokes weed and he says he is not addicted but i know he is. he never smokes around me and ive never seen him do it. he says hes quit for about a month now. i try not to pressure him to quit but he does know how i feel about it! Is a month a long time? should i pressure him more? what else can i do? help!

2006-10-19 04:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for five months today. I think it was a big mistake. He lies a lot about everything. I have three kids from a previous marriage, he acts inappropriately around them (swearing, fighting with them). I've started to have feelings for someone who has been interested in me for a long time. This guy is amazing, he is everything that you could ask for in a man. I feel confused and don't know what to do. If I leave my marriage I want to know for sure that it's not because of this other guy. We've been getting lots of counselling, sometimes things seem better, other times they are back to the same old. What do I do????

2006-10-19 04:38:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've dated several Viet guys and cannot understand why they always have problems sharing their feelings and thoughts. How the heck do they supposed that girls will know how they feel? It's like the pride thing and the "I-can-deal-with-it-myself" mentality. Then when it comes to doing something nice and romantic, it's like that word "romantic" doesn't even exist in their dictionary. BTW, I'm in my early 20's, so maybe I haven't met all you sensitive Vietnamese guys out there. I could be wrong, but I'm not trying to generalize. =)

2006-10-19 04:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating