I will not stand back and let him live the good life wile my daught and my hole family for that matter suffer. I want him back i want him to pay and most importatly i never want this to happen to a nother child please help
2006-10-19 04:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by corriem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have already Filed Charges And he has admitted to doing this, but unfortionatly thay can only get him in the us. I need someone to tell me how to get him not only for my daughter but for the next little girl. is there someone i can hire to bring him back
2006-10-19 06:14:06 · update #1
Your family has my deepest sympathies. The first thing you need to do is have him charged in the US for the crime. This will assure that if he ever sets foot in the US, he will be arrested. I believe extradition from Zambia could be quite difficult. I would write to the US consulate in Zambia, after charges in the US have been filed, and also write directly to the Zambian government. The most important thing is to have him charged for this crime here in the US.
2006-10-19 04:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to court. Get a divorce and get full custody of your little girl with NO visitation rights ever for him. Have him convicted as a rapist and a thief. The courts will be able to tell you if there is an extradition polity with Zambia. I admire you for not only thinking of yourself; I understand your concerns about not wanting this to happen to another child. If the courts are not able to extradite him back to the U.S. to stand trial, then send his picture and his conviction to the authorities in Zambia and let them keep an eye on him. Send the information to newspapers there warning everyone about what he did.
I am so sorry this happened to you and your family. I hope your little girl is going to get help and will able to put this behind her. Your husband is a sick son-of-a-*****.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-19 11:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
File charges against him. gather as much information about the case, and give it to the police. I hope when it happened, you took your child to the hospital. also compile her medical records. Now your daughter is going to need counseling, Please get her help, this had to be very thematic experience for a child of her age! The country that he fled, if you know where and the address, give all of this to the police. Do not let it rest, do what you have to do to see that justice is done for your child!
2006-10-19 11:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start asap before the facts get cold. I guess I would start at the bottom--local police--and work my way up the ladder of legality. If you can afford an attorney, that would be advisable. You might want to consider taking your daughter to the doctor for more proof. The best of luck to you and your daughter.
2006-10-19 12:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not too much you can do with him in Zambia. In your place, move if he knows where you live, put your children in a school under another name, get on with your life. You really don't want him to "pay" ---- that would mean he would be in your life, and it doesn't sound like that is a good thing. Your husband is a rat of the worst kind. Cut that out of your life, and get on with it.....
2006-10-19 12:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's horrible, I'm sorry that happened to you and most importantly your daughter. I would definitely make sure you take care of your daughter first (physically/emotionally) then I would pursue hiring someone to locate your "husband". Take extra special care of your baby. Good luck!
2006-10-19 11:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i am so so sorry god only knows what your daughter and you must be going through it really upsets me to think that people can do things like that to a child so young he deserves to be locked away till he rotts in hell i hope you and your family can get through this for your daughters sake dont let your daughter see that you are upset i know that will be hard but maybe you could get some one to talk to as it might help i hope you all come through this horrible tragedy and get justice for your little girl my prayers and thoughts are with you good luck xxxx
2006-10-19 12:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by AMANDA W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
??? if what you say is true...If you call your local F.B.I. office, they will tell you to call your local Police Dept., File a report, have it investigated, then they will contact the proper authorities to follow up on the capture and extradition of said perpitrator. Plain and simple..GET ON THE STICK, NOW!!
2006-10-19 11:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the fbi involved if he fled the country. sometimes, countries have laws where they can extradite people back to the us for crimes they committed while here. i just got done reading a book that said this in there.
2006-10-19 11:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Niki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Local police, FBI, and CIA. Involve everyone even the IRS.
2006-10-19 11:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by big_strong_one 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋