I know this guy who loved me before but I never minded him, now I'm the one who loves him... He's my best buddy and I consider him as my brother, same goes with him for me, but I dont know if he still loves me, becuase he is courting this new girl, and it looks like he loves her very much, because he's giving everything for that girl. What to do? I'm just 13, dont even know how to react on it... Help me!
2006-10-19 04:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Chippy_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him be. This sounds like a soap opera. Don't get obsessed like the soap opera. Just tell him and let him decide. If he decides to stay with that other girl let him. If he goes with you , make it quick and painless for the other girl. You people are just 13 so there is plenty of time to forget or come back to this later if he doesn't choose you. You people who are 13 don't know what love is so don't get worked up about it.
2006-10-19 04:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by The One Truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so complicated, I'd rather not think about it. 'Love is complicated.' is not just ANOTHER TYPICAL statement. It's true, and you all know it.
Don't react girl. It'll pass by, the feelings will pass by, it'll ease eventually. Concentrate on things such as friends, a new school, a new life, a new hobby!
May I just give a remark on how pathetic that guy is? I've had guys give expensive gifts to girls, and the girl has already stated, "I don't love you."
You'll do fine, don't worry. Hormones are a bunch of trouble!
Take care,
Peanut
2006-10-19 05:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ur 13 n in this age attraction happens so thats really not love as u now treat him as a brother thats good u had already handled the situation so whats the problem just let the things go as it is .....i really wish u to find ur true soulmate one day ....so good luck
2006-10-19 04:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well i honestly dont think you know what love is if love is that easy for him and you he probably doesnt like you anymore if he "loves" her its the first of many heartaches good luck with love!
2006-10-19 04:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋