I tried to arrange a threesome,but he's way too conservative.I love him very much and he's my best lover ever.
I think I'm straight in the grand scheme.Some girls are too beautiful and there is always this luscious promise
2006-10-19 04:57:25 · 51 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you are cheating. Make a choice. Men or women.
2006-10-19 04:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In reality, you are cheating on yourself.
Reason being, you are openly proving that you have no loyalty to another human being and cannot be trusted.
Why don't you ask another question as to how many men or women would find it OK for their spouse, mate, or whatever to cheat on them? I think you will be in for a big surprise.
I would highly suggest you never even consider marriage and in the event you are, let me ask you this, how will you feel if your man decides to cheat on you, and sleeps with other women?
You are of course entitled to do what you want, its your life, but consider that the most damage is being done to yourself, by you.
This is probably the saddest question I could possibly imagine.
Have you ever heard the biblical story of Sodom and Gomorrah?
If it was just a story, you are safe, but if it is true and god does exist, you are going to be in some deep do do
2006-10-19 05:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious you know the answer, sharing any intimacy be it physical or psychological with another no matter what their sex is most certainly being unfaithful. You are young but in years to come the price for your activities will be paid in full. Obviously as wonderful a lover that your parner is it is not enough for your heart body or soul. You are discontent and have a roving eye, it will eventually cause pain and break up your relationship, if it doesn't, you will not respect your partner. Maybe you should invest more time with your parner, be more open or buy yourself some adult toys, not the norm as your appetite will cause you masturbaters cramp but try a little investment in these http://www.fetishfish.com/toy-dildo/f ucking-machines/ (close the gap between the f and the u) lots of luck.
2006-10-19 05:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is that you're being dishonest and running around behind his back. Obviously you know this, otherwise you wouldn't have asked. It seems like you're looking for sympathy or approval moreso than an answer to whether or not you're cheating. It's time to weigh in--is the "luscious promise" worth more than your husband? Because that's been your answer so far, and if you get divorced and dumped on your ***, don't have the nerve to cry about it. Marriage is about mutual respect, and it sounds to me like you're not quite mature enough for it.
2006-10-19 05:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by christophermalachite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course thats cheating. But i love the question anyway's, it was cute. Woman never seem to stop amazing me. Why do you think so many guys live overseas, would you want to deal with an amercian woman every day? I lived in 29 countries. Coming back to the states was pretty sad.
2006-10-19 05:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with have children and live in that house with the picket fence i would have a hard think about what your doing but if that doesnt bother you email me phone number and ill have that threesome with ya
2006-10-19 05:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by stuckbetweenlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are cheating. It doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl it's still cheating. If you really love your man, you wouldn't be doing this! Seriously, I mean the poor guy probably wants to spend the rest of his life with you and your just throwing it all away!
2006-10-19 05:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Amber R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's cheating.
I'd stay away from the group sex thing too. Don't get me wrong, I think threesomes are a blast, but once you're in an exclusive relationship group sex will only mess things up.
2006-10-19 04:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
technically you are cheating, but your best bet is to let him know.
Most men would not have a problem with their g/f's having a little fun w/ other women. i hear ya on the beauty of women, they are so soft and gorgeous and i feel the same as you. i have a fiance who i adore and is my life and i wouldnt give him up for the world but women are fun! he's cool w/ me fooling around with other girls as long as im honest with him and tell him about my action..! (lol)
you are just going to have to be honest with him and if he doesnt like the fact that you enjoy fooling around with women, you will have to decide which is more important, fooling around with girls or being with him
and PS.. give me a ring if u want a rendevous w/ me..im bi and you got me a little turned on.. ;)
2006-10-19 05:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it not cheating if you tell him about the threesome. I would like to watch just you to myself. I love my men. Showing two women have fun is a turn on.
2006-10-19 05:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by kimi21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋