Im a kind caring confident loving reasonable looking guy from northern ireland. I have a good job a nice car and im happy in life. The one problem I have is dating girls. Its nothing to do with self confidence as I chat to anyone and have loads of female friends. The problems always arise whenever I go to ask them out or find out if they fancy me or not. The last half dozen that I have asked have had the lets be friends approach which is fine but I would like some love in my life. I come across as being very happy single but inside deep down I would like somebody special in my life. Where am I going wrong? Its the biggest mystery in my life and one which I would like to crack
2006-10-19 04:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by Patrick O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's a cliche but love will come when you least expect it. I went from one relationship to the next and became quite sceptical about the whole thing. Then I found some like-minded friends and we tried speed-dating, blind-dates, all the things you miss when you're in a couple - then we gave internet dating a go, just for a laugh, I then met and fell in love with someone from miles away - we got engaged 2 months later and 6 months later we have bought a house and are expecting our first baby! As soon as you relax a little and get yourself out there and dating the right one will come along, trust me!
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2016-04-24 17:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to say without being there. Maybe it just the type of girls you are approaching. Maybe they are not the right type to be in a love relationship with. From what you have written it would seem like you have a lot going for you. Maybe they are a little intimidated by the other female friends and think you are a player. I haven't seen how you act around them so it is hard to say.
2006-10-19 05:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be laid back about it all. Just be cool and chat to women without coming across too needy for a relationship. Socialise as much as you can. One day you will find that woman who worries about whether she dare ask you out or whether you are interested in her. If you reciprocate her feelings- it will no doubt be love.
Don't try and fit every woman in to the date/romance/sex etc scenario because you feel you would like somebody.
One day, when you are least expecting it, she will turn up for you and you will enjoy all of the aforementioned i'm sure!
2006-10-19 05:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by brainlady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check inward, maybe there is something about you that keeps them away? Or you simply agree to be just friends and from there it will mature into what you want. Are you hyercritical? it could be one problem you do not know exists. i had a friend who could criticise the world over, I just tried the relationship to prove i was wrong about his personality but i ended up leaving him. No lady will tell you outrightly that you have a particular minus. check inward deeply. and also observe: what make the other guys tic with girls and why not you? Wish you luck.
2006-10-19 05:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlips 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought about taking up a hobby? This is where I have found most of my dates at. Common interest may be the way to start a relationship. I found it very hard to find anyone interested in the American Civil War until I started doing living history and reenactments. Good luck with it. You sound like a great person, But I live in the midwest of the U.S. Good luck!
2006-10-19 05:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettohara1861 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have lots of female friends then ask them for help and advice, they will love being asked and will think you are really lovely for asking them. Say to them, why do you think girls only want to be friends with me and what do you think I need to do to progress to girlfriend. Tell them you want them to be absolutely honest and as they all know you and none of us on here do, you will probably discover a thing or two about yourself.
Be prepared to laugh at yourself, they will be really kind though. This would touch most women to be asked and they will be gentle.
Good luck!
2006-10-19 05:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by michelle a 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having too many women friends can be a negative
1)some women will think your taken
2)or that your gay
Women are really catty and if there is somebody you caht to a lot the rumour mill has probably already stated categorically that you have shagged her.
2006-10-19 05:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by budda m 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm pretty sure I'm safe to say that deep love does not happen over night. You need to start on a "let's be friends basis" and it happens from there. Don't rush it cause that only scares them away. Enjoy the journey.
2006-10-19 05:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You wear your heart on your sleeve, stop it it's too intense and unattractive, I know this from experience so ignore them and then they'll get more interested, even if it's just to ask you why you blanked them, think of an answer to this question in advance so you don't get as unstuck as I did once.
2006-10-19 05:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋