That gay people are born gay!! How are you born gay?! I think it's a choice. I feel you choose to be who you are. Your not born bi-sexual!!! You choose to like both guys and girls!! This is just my oppinion. Is there proof that your born gay?! I'm not saying I hate gays or anything because I don't. I just don't understand how people are born gay!!
2006-10-19 04:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with you its a choice lifestyle
2006-10-19 05:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Eric c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell me this. Do you understand why you like men? When you were young, did you one day say, humm, do I like boys or girls? Or did you just like boys. What you like is what you like. It's wired into your brain. You have to admit that everyones brains is different. However, there are certain physical differences between mens and womans brains, that is a medical fact. Suppose those differences also impact what sex we find attractive. Then suppose that a man might have a brain that has some characteristics of a womans brain, he might then be attracted to men.
It's really that simple, and if people would accept it, our world would be filled with alot more love and alot less hate. The problem is that in order for religious zelots to accept that, they have to credit god for it since he created us and our brains, but they say god hates gays, so they are torn. Now, who has the problem, the gays or the zelots?
Oh and why in the hell would someone choose to be gay. That is crazy.
As far as bi-sexual goes there are two views on this. Truly bi people have a real sexual attraction to both sexes, or they just don't have the strong attraction a straight person has. However, society has embraced the lipstick party bi girl, who is choosing to act bi in order to make a statement or impress a guy, but that is fake and just for show. That is a choice.
2006-10-19 05:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some people choose to be gay. But others seem to have the traits as a gay person very early in life. I think there are way to many factors to know either way.
2006-10-19 05:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't ever remembering saying to myself ... " you know what - I think I'm going to choose to like girls today from now on - I want to sleep with both girls and guys ... " hahaha ... !
What I do know is I've always felt an attraction to women, girls, ladies ... since I was little ( maybe around 5-7 I really noticed it ) ... felt women were always sexier than guys - deep down always checking out the girls - but still wanted to fall in love with a man, marry a man, have babies and live happily ever after - if sleeping with other women makes me happier why not indulge now - you only live once right ... !
2006-10-19 05:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The gay people that I know say that they felt feeling towards the same sex around the same time all of their friends were liking the opposite sex. At this point as a child, you don't know that you have a choice, it's more of less given to you.
2006-10-19 05:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what the "experts" say about this but personally I think people CHOOSE to be gay..... I dont think they are born that way either but what the hell do I know.
2006-10-19 05:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you understand how a person can be born with a mental handicapped, or physically handicapped or Perfect for that matter??
All the gay friends I have, knew they were gay before they started kindergarten!! So, my opinion on this is: YES!! You can be born GAY.
It's a CHOICE to be BI!
2006-10-19 05:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I will have to agree with you. I do not think they are born gay either.
2006-10-19 05:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can read beyond the 6th grade level, please read a book called, "A Separate Creation" by Chandler Burr. It will answer your questions and, hopefully, convince you that sexual orientation is not a "choice." I mean, think about it, why would anyone "choose" to be hated by most of the rest of the world?
2006-10-19 05:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they are not born gay
2006-10-19 05:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋