Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

Lots of women say that he does...so do dudes...is he really that good at giving advice?

2006-10-19 06:24:27 · 5 answers · asked by SmoothG 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my aunt and her fiance is getting married in May of '07. Her fiance don't want to fly, he's not giving her any reasons at all as to why he won't fly, he just said he won't. So, she's upset because she don't have a clue where they would go now, for their honeymoon. They live in St. Louis, MO Do anyone have any suggestions on some honeymoon ideas, that will be romantic, where they won't have to fly?

2006-10-19 06:24:19 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

Okay when ever my gf and i are talking she gets mad at me well maybe not mad but upset anyway and tells me I ask stupid questions. The thing is I am actually kinda shy and I have a hard time talking to ppl even ppl I love and care about. I just don't know what to say. How can i talk to her or anyone else for that m,atter. Is there anything I can do to become more comfortable talking around ppl. I really don't want to risk loosing my gf over this so plz help

2006-10-19 06:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Singles & Dating

well he forgot to return a movie we had in the car so when he drops me off he tells me hes going to drop it off so i was like im going to. next thing you know hes driving all crazy mad he gets mad cuz i dont let him drop it off by himself. well i dont trust him so i go. i know everywhere he goes i make him tell me if he wants to be with me if he dont like it he can leave.. but last night i think he had it he left and didnt call me is it over?? everytime we have fights he calls and crys but this time he didnt?? does he have someone else or has he just had it with telling me everwhere he goes??? Hey if he dont like the way i am then he can leave he puts up with it ..

2006-10-19 06:23:20 · 12 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Singles & Dating

wow,I really wasn't expecting so many answers so soon (my question yesterday)!I realise how many of us go through things that we really don't deserve.
I wanted to thank you all for your answers and support.I got a lot out of them (it's the first time I write in this forum so I don't know if the rating thing is important....but believe me I would put max rating to all of you).I'm glad to hear that 99% of you managed to see the good side of these horrible situations.I'm sure I will too.I suppose I already am in a way.I was just thinking today that, yes,maybe opposites DO attract but I realise that opposites are really not made to live together (and my god do I realise now that HE and I don't have the same view of life and relationships).
In any case, thank you again for all your stories! I hope you will all read this.
Just one last curiosity: did any of these "idiots" come back on their knees? Do not get me wrong, I would never take him back if he ever regrets...but it may feel good..?;)

2006-10-19 06:22:54 · 17 answers · asked by yayoch 1 in Weddings

I have no bridesmaid that instantly comes to mind.
Here are my choices, help me decide please.
1. Friend. My friend for about a year. She is not a very good friend, but is my only female friend. I do not think she is very supportive of my marriage and is jealous. I do not agree with her lifestyle, but do not judge her outside my own thoughts.
2. Cousin. I really like my cousin a lot, but don't talk to her outside of the holidays. She is also very very tall.
3. My sister. She is 14. Our groomsman choosen is over 50.
4. Have none. This would be asking my husband to give up his.
5. Other.... any suggestions?

2006-10-19 06:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And this girl i know who i used to be realy close to, has just ruined her life, how do i help get her back on track? i dont want her to make this mistake that i know she is making? (dropping out of highschool, moving in with a 21 year old who doesnt go to school doesnt have a job, does drugs lives wit his parents) ow do i help her! shes only 18 since yesterday!

2006-10-19 06:22:46 · 3 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Friends

I have dated this guy for about a year...the first 6 months were great. Suddenly he changed. He became very emotionally and verbally abusive. We have broken up so many times its ridiculous. I always take him back because he seems sincere and sorry. After a few months of the verbal abuse I slipped back into doing drugs after 15 years of sobriety. He found out and made me feel so low that I cut my wrists. I got clean again and now all he does is remind me of the slip up. He calls me an addict and weak and tells me I dont have the courage to commit suicide. I have lost my job over this relationship and I cannot get him to leave me alone. Restraining order will not work as there is no physical violence.Everyone thinks he's Icharming. I change numbers - changed emails. Im losing my mind. I have no freinds as they all are sick of me for going back so many times and will not talk to me anymore. I have no family and now no income. Im going crazy!

2006-10-19 06:22:22 · 24 answers · asked by Maggie A 1 in Singles & Dating

We have had one before and I think she was more into my hubby than into both of us. So now we are talking about doing it again and the thought of last time is in the back of my mind. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and still very much in love and are very happy. But is it normal to worry about her trying to "steal" him. And yes I do want to do this Its just that he is MY HUSBAND. Is it wrong to be that way. I am sorry if this makes no sense I just am trying to get my thoughts out and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about any of this.

2006-10-19 06:22:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Although I never thought it would ever happen to me, I have fallen in love with a married man, who is also in love with me. His wife is 17 years older than him; they have been married for 12 years, and don't have children together. There are kids involved, but they are older now, and were from his previous marriage. It all started, between him and I, as a really good friendship, but now we can't stop thinking about one another. We've now been "seeing" eachother for about 5 months. I know it's wrong, but everytime either one of us has tried to call it quits because "it's the right thing to do"...it just brings us closer. I guess my question is...is it TRUELY wrong to persue a married man if he has fallen out of love with his wife, is only with her because of the amount of time invested, and has fallen madly in love with you?

2006-10-19 06:21:57 · 35 answers · asked by Eliz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 06:21:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i`m in luv with a girl for a year.it`s not like other gals dont luv me but she is differant . what shall i do to let her know how i really feel about her and i`ll luv her more than anyone?

2006-10-19 06:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:19:00 · 28 answers · asked by bindaas g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 06:18:04 · 17 answers · asked by alexandra24 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my friend has been seeing a guy she meant on yahoo answers and he was planning to move here ,seemed like a good guy and i was sure he was coming they talked all the time and she got them a place and everything well he went to see his parents and ran into is wife that he hasen't been with for months he decides they are gonna work it out but he wants to keep talking to my friend to and isnt sure things will work with the wife who left him the last time if he wants it to work with the wife should he be calling my friend still i so believe he caers for her but i feel she is hurting enought please give me your opinions for him and her i will e mail them thanks so much!

2006-10-19 06:17:37 · 12 answers · asked by LOLO 3 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:17:07 · 35 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating

know 4 about 4 months now.make each other laugh,really enjoy each other,very affectionate,have long hugs where I lay my head on his chest,very playful and touches me like pats me on the back,ask me where I was if I'm gone for a bit.I know he cares a lot about me and he must know I still like him because I make it very obvious with my flirting and telling him how I feel. like I say i can't stop smiling when I talk to you,and I've given him the kissey smile face and he'll smile:-D all the time when I flirt. So if he likes me,should I just ask him if he likes anyone now and if he says I like you,then see if he wants to be my b/f.he's in college now and I'll see him on winter break.I'm a little bit older with experience.6 years older. but we don't care about the age.I asked.he's never had a g/f b-4.he's 18.

2006-10-19 06:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:14:52 · 23 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:14:51 · 25 answers · asked by teresak713 3 in Singles & Dating

up to you and asked you out and you rated him or her and decided that they weren't your type would you bluntly say no or lie

2006-10-19 06:13:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this guy who really flurts with me and I really flurt with him, and I know that he really likes me!

2006-10-19 06:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by fish&hunt 1 in Singles & Dating

what should our desert be i have the dinner down to an art and i know exactly what i am going to cook but i dont know what to cook him for desert so everyone give me your favorite desert whether it be cake or anything else?

2006-10-19 06:13:27 · 6 answers · asked by LiL mAmMa 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a girlfriend for a while and then after saying the L word to eachother, she just left, never gave me a reason. why are femmes so mean sometimes? do they think that just because i'm butch and tough-looking, i can handle having my heart broken?

2006-10-19 06:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:11:24 · 8 answers · asked by Janji 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married almost 5 years.
He gets sick less.
I am upset that he does not recognize when I do take care of him. It seems like he is seeing the negative. HELP

2006-10-19 06:11:16 · 16 answers · asked by silly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been divorced for 4 years. We have a 7 year old son. Our marriage was really rocky when we were together. I think we were both very immature. But I'm still scared to take that chance again. This is really tearring me up trying to make the right decision.

2006-10-19 06:10:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and my bf is 22 and we seem to be running into problems seeing how i cant do all the things he can.

2006-10-19 06:10:18 · 35 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Singles & Dating

If you loved someone and then you two broke up and didn't speak for like 6 months and then reunite and you still love them a lot...can that change in only 3 months.That seems really fast to me and i know love does sometimes go away faster than you thought it would but if you still love someone and meet with them again wouldn't the love take longer to go away since you're renewing old bonds.I'm so confused cause i just don't understand how someone's love for you can be gone just like that and can someone still love you but treat you bad maybe for revenge or something?And if that's the case do they have any real intentions of ever getting back with you or is it just to hurt you but if you want to still hurt them don't you still have to love them to even care to do so?Please try to answer each question i asked,thanks...

2006-10-19 06:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I can't come to an agreement on where to live.
I rent a one bedroom apt and he rents a two bedroom apt with a roommate.
The options are
1)when his lease is up in April to move in with me and upgrade to a two bedroom apt ( I say stay with me so we can save more money for a house forget about the 2 br option)
2) me move in with him ( roomate with have to move out and he is fully aware that when we get married he will have to move out and is okay with this-was made aware of us getting married before he became my fiance's roommate. I don't like this idea since I don't like where he lives
3) both of us get a two bedroom apartment before the wedding (i think we could save more if we suck it up in the one bedroom)

Neither of us have the money right now to start looking for a house and we both agree that we cannot have a house right away but we are working towards that goal.

2006-10-19 06:09:41 · 8 answers · asked by m_harvery 3 in Weddings