If you loved someone and then you two broke up and didn't speak for like 6 months and then reunite and you still love them a lot...can that change in only 3 months.That seems really fast to me and i know love does sometimes go away faster than you thought it would but if you still love someone and meet with them again wouldn't the love take longer to go away since you're renewing old bonds.I'm so confused cause i just don't understand how someone's love for you can be gone just like that and can someone still love you but treat you bad maybe for revenge or something?And if that's the case do they have any real intentions of ever getting back with you or is it just to hurt you but if you want to still hurt them don't you still have to love them to even care to do so?Please try to answer each question i asked,thanks...
2006-10-19 06:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, what a bunch of questions, I'll try..............
If love is real it always stay I think, unless or until somebody does things to erode trust and love that is there already. opinion
Its timeless, builds as fast as it does, fades as fast as it does. If you make and have really valuable sweetness. At least the memories stay, even if the person doesn't.
Yes, like in Chemistry, if you lean something once, its usually easier the second time. Renewing bonds would be an example.
I too have felt someones love for me to be gone, it hurts bad. Especially if they don't say why. That has happened to me a few times.
Revenge is useless. It hurts the person who is doing the hurting more than anyone else. The effect on the recipient is usually just a strong feeling that it was wise to get away.
I wake each day and see who is there for me, in any small way. Then sometimes I talk with them. I just see how it evolves. The people wo like you for spening time with tem are the true friends. The ones who MAKE time for you are the true friends.
2006-10-19 06:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You know something. When you reallly have loved someone it never goes away. We learn to accept and respect the choices they make when they move on. We will always maintain a certain degree of love for someone we have truly loved. It moves to a different stage as we move. Don't be afraid to love or to move on. Don't hurt anybody if you have been hurt it's not fair to the next person in your life Love is what keeps good people good and Lord knows we need more love for each other. Love not sex. God Bless Ya.
2006-10-19 13:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no standard for falling into or out of love!
Thats as different as each individual is....
Yes some poeple are revenge seeking..they'll play with youe emotions just to see what havoc they can create..be careful of this type of person--can really mess a person up!
They have NO intention of ever getting back together--it just make themselves feel all powerful!
best bet= it hurts but just try to walk away! keep your pride intact and look for someone a little more stable! Find someone to talk to either in person or even on-line-to get thru this time!
BEST OF LUCK---you'll make it!
2006-10-19 13:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, you can fall out of love as fast as you fell in love. If one has lots of resentment because he/she was hurt, they may take it out on their partner.
Other times, one may acknowledge the fact that no matter what "it just wasn't meant to be". Not everyone is compatible. It's a fact that both have to accept.
2006-10-19 13:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Aidge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling out of love can happen instantaneously. If I can't respect or trust someone, the love is gone, no matter how much I hoped it would last. Cheat on me, lie to me, abuse me....and it's over!!!
2006-10-19 13:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way you could fall out of 'love' with someone so fast is because they never loved you to begin with.
There was never any love my dear.
2006-10-19 13:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it takes longer than 3 months yes stay away from them just stay away from them
2006-10-19 13:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbobisyours 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i fall out of love really fast
2006-10-19 13:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, love is not about questions. not about conditions.. not about understanding, not about expectations..
but about spontaneity.
it is about living and knowing that the more you love, the more loveable you become.
what others do does not count. it is what you do that counts.
being hurt means expectations not met!!!
Be bold as love!!!!
and be free forever!!
2006-10-19 13:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by allan m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It dependsa on the person if the person is not apealing to you or is rude or abusive it very quick.
2006-10-19 13:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋