Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

She has never said it before ITS BREAKING MY HEART I am so afraid!

2006-10-19 06:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for a very long time. She has always been very concerned about her appearance. We lost touch for a few years, but I was talking to her on the phone recently and catching up and she was talking about her soon-to-be-husband (whom I also know..) She said:

"When I first met him he told me that we could only be friends because I was too big for him. I had just had a baby and I was 140pds. At 5'2". He emailed me the entire time he was overseas, when he came back and saw that I lost weight, back at 102pds and he couldn't keep his hands off me. I was like "ooooh...NOOOOW you want me.."

I was listening to her thinking "huh..I wonder what would happen if she gained weight back."

Girls, would you marry a guy who didn't want you the way you are regardless?

Guys, would you only be friends with a girl just because her size even if it was just baby weight?

2006-10-19 06:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

My g/f broke up with me and found a new b/f, and she looks happy, so is my rival. I don't decribe again how I feel I just can tell you 5 nights out 7 I am thinking about beating or even killing that guy, that hurt is so deep, it has physical reflections on me.
Now I see my ex g/f is so sweet to that guy, she is attracted like a little girl, although he is a little liar and way "too smart" a person. The more I see her happy, the more pain I feel in my chest.
And my rival, keeps cool all the time, I am the one who lost the temper I know it's wrong coz people think I am the one who is farked up, because I seem so mad and he looks so innocent. People are blind, even my ex-gf is, she told me not to hurt him, which in fact I have never done, I haven't even talked to him!

So, there's my situation, I guess most of you are more experienced than I am, PLEASE help me, I will cherish every word that everyone leave here.

If I wanna get her back, what should I do now?

2006-10-19 06:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by umcris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

many sex parteners have you had (this includes oral Mr. Clinton) and how many do you think is TOO many? Does your current boyfriend/girlfriend know the REAL number?

2006-10-19 06:35:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by monkeyn 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:34:41 · 4 answers · asked by atecelly84 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:34:35 · 28 answers · asked by Jenasy M 1 in Singles & Dating

My new beau is married and i just found out. I know the reason why he and she split, I was told all of the details, but not the most important one "He's Married"... I love him and I know he loves me, we are very happy, but now, I feel decieved and don't know if I trust him like i did before finding out. He says he is in the process of getting a divorce, but who doesn't say that... I wish I wasn't in love with him nor in a relationship, because, I have a strict rule "No married men"... What do I do...I love him???

2006-10-19 06:34:04 · 37 answers · asked by Dani_n_keem 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and my father is dying. He had a heart attack and the lack of oxygen caused him to fall into a persistent vegetative state (PVS). It has been two months and now we are told he has a couple days to "live". What he is in right now is not really much of a life, so although I am very upset, he is a strong Christian and I know he will go to a better place. I just started my first year of university and I'm having problems focussing, but I know my dad would want me to be here. Aside from this, my 15 year old sister and my mom and living by themselves and I'm not sure what to do. We're all handling grief in a different way, but my sister especially holds it all inside. I'm very concerned that in the future all our emotions could build up and explode. I'm just not sure what steps I should be taking to combat this and to help my family.

2006-10-19 06:33:31 · 19 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Family

my boyfriend goes to a different school then i do and havent talkd to him in a month. should i leave him????

2006-10-19 06:33:24 · 17 answers · asked by Alexandria G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my bf has been dyin to makeout with me, and sure i would like to. but idk if i should. we've been goin out for 3 months and last year we had gone out for four months. i've never really "made out" with anyone so idk wat to do... laugh out loud

help me plaese?

2006-10-19 06:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my fianace dearly, but i don't feel like i'm really engaged. i love sharing the news, and planning the wedding. but since i've been engaged for about 3 months, i still feel like he's my boyfriend. what should i do?

2006-10-19 06:32:45 · 25 answers · asked by justinslovelymrs 1 in Weddings

my bf and i have been dating for about 3 years. well he just recently told me that his friends are just important as i am. shouldn't i be a little more important considering the fact that i love him..and they don't...they have only been friends for about a year.

he sees them every single day and sees me 3-4 times a week..maybe 5 if im lucky. they will never love him unconditionally like i do. he says "my friends wouldn't make me chose between you or them" i said im not making you chose. chosing between people and having someone more important then others are two completely different things.

help?! what do i say to him to get it through his head that if he didn't have them..he would have nobody but me. i have tried explaining it. he doesnt listen

2006-10-19 06:31:58 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

We all 15-16

2006-10-19 06:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone is helping and hiding a runaway, how much trouble could they get into? And how much trouble could a teen get into for running away if caught? (<= With the law?) Also if they runaway and don't get caught or found and has proven to be able to take care of themself by paying for themself (From bills to food), then could they be emancipated at sixteen or would they just get sent home and get introuble? All the information you have about running away, emancipation, and the law would be great. Thank you...

2006-10-19 06:30:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 06:30:33 · 15 answers · asked by Jumping Jelly Beans 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 20's and have been going to my church since I was in high school. The youth director and I have gone through a lot together and become really good friends. Her birthday is approaching and I am in need of some very meaningful gift ideas. Thans for responding!

2006-10-19 06:30:18 · 2 answers · asked by michellinie 2 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:30:08 · 20 answers · asked by Alice S 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:29:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 06:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by monkeyn 1 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5 in Family

Well me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 and a half weeks ago and since then I've been stuck in this horrible funk. I'll like a guy and he'll flirt with me only come to find out he has this great enormous history with some other chick whom he still has feelings for. Yea guys are jerks lol but anyways my friends live far away and seeing as how I don't have a car I can't drive to go see them and I'm always online which sucks haha

I need some ideas of fun low budget things I can do at home to keep myself from being bored and feeling depressed.

Thanks
~Ashley~

2006-10-19 06:28:31 · 15 answers · asked by theblonchic 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to know a website where I can ask a question, and have it answered. Time is VERY important, as it has to do with pregnancy. Please give me a good website that I can post a question and get an immediate answer...thanks!!

2006-10-19 06:28:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok. Im 13 (8th grade) and I just moved, so im at a different school of course. Im shy, so its hard for me to make friends, and its hard to just go up to someong and start talking, mostly cause i dont know what to say. Any suggestions? and no negative comments please!

2006-10-19 06:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Linzi 4 in Friends

2006-10-19 06:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After being in a relationship for a 1 1/2 my gf has broken up with me. She tells me that she loves me but she needs to figure things out about herself. In her previous relationship she did everything for her ex bf but he still left her and she felt that rejection. She said she was over him when we met but she never reconciled from her broken heart. We started dating and I filled that emptiness inside her and gave her everything to make her happy. She was very happy in our relationship because I treated her so good compared to her ex. She always feels like she is not making me happy and I'lve always told her otherwise. I think recently she felt like we were getting too serious in our relationship because she thought I wasn't accepting her for who she is and I was trying to change her, which is not true. She never opened her true feelings to me and I feel like it's not fair for me. She said she's not ready for a serious relationship and needs time to figure herself out. Should I move on

2006-10-19 06:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Browns 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

nail salon or home care
spit or swallow
anal or are you crazy
cook or order
another girl or guy
camera or video
shave or hairy
make love or f&^k
shower or bath
quite or screamer

2006-10-19 06:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married and we would like to add a website to put on our save the dates with all of the information since it is a destination wedding. How much do they cost, and how hard are they to set up and maintain?

2006-10-19 06:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by Chad P 2 in Weddings

I want to marry him someday so i want to keep him happy

2006-10-19 06:25:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how iam a little shy

2006-10-19 06:25:06 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley O 1 in Singles & Dating