After being in a relationship for a 1 1/2 my gf has broken up with me. She tells me that she loves me but she needs to figure things out about herself. In her previous relationship she did everything for her ex bf but he still left her and she felt that rejection. She said she was over him when we met but she never reconciled from her broken heart. We started dating and I filled that emptiness inside her and gave her everything to make her happy. She was very happy in our relationship because I treated her so good compared to her ex. She always feels like she is not making me happy and I'lve always told her otherwise. I think recently she felt like we were getting too serious in our relationship because she thought I wasn't accepting her for who she is and I was trying to change her, which is not true. She never opened her true feelings to me and I feel like it's not fair for me. She said she's not ready for a serious relationship and needs time to figure herself out. Should I move on
2006-10-19 06:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Browns 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im in the same situation wit my bf. I really feel if you love and care about her you should be there for her no matter what shes going through. Dont give her up so easy, let her know that you are there for her. If you just walk away she'll think that you are all talk but no action. Dont leave her in her most vulnerable time of need. she trying to figure herself out because she thinks that what happened in her past is happening all over again, and if you say its not then you gotta make her believe you and she wouldn't ever have any doubts. you have to realize how vulnerable she is, and that she is gonna need your support even if she wants it or not. let her know you will always be there thorugh thick and thin(if the love is that strong)
2006-10-19 06:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says this is what she wants who are you to stop her and would you really want too if you could? Let her go. Give her the space she needs and all the time it takes to figure herself out. Go on with you're life when you feel ready and if you're meant to be together you'll be together in the end. But don't dwell on it. You'll only make yourself more miserable. Good luck!
2006-10-19 13:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by momof4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, then she will come back. Otherwise, it appears she has issues and has not healed from her ex or can't commit because of her past relationship.
Just be honest with her and tell her you will see how things are apart. Just don't play games because that will make things worse.
2006-10-19 13:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by jazzyfresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best to give her a space, till she is sure about you. maybe she was with you to help herself to forget her ex.
Sometimes it helps to meet someone to forget past experience.
Sadly, maybe it was you in that situation, if you love her be patient. you know something, if you left her for a while, she will miss you and ask you to come back. dont leave her. just say ok you can have your space, you know she will feel she would loose you then if her true feelings were to love you she will come to you.
good luck.
:)
2006-10-19 13:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if it's meant to be it will, give her some time. Be nice to her call her see how she is doing, make sure she is safe. Tell her you love her send her flowers. If she is upset at herself cheer her up, don't give up.
2006-10-19 13:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋