Ok. Im 13 (8th grade) and I just moved, so im at a different school of course. Im shy, so its hard for me to make friends, and its hard to just go up to someong and start talking, mostly cause i dont know what to say. Any suggestions? and no negative comments please!
2006-10-19 06:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Linzi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I kinda dont now what to say or talk about either. It not really talking, its just what to say
2006-10-19 06:40:53 · update #1
I'll suggest one thing to you that's always been suggested to me: If it's possible, find yourself some activities or groups to join! Something that you think you'll enjoy, so at least you, and others in the group, will have something in common. Then maybe you might feel like chatting with some people in the group. Keep contact with one another, and you'll hopefully have one or some friends to hang with!
I hope that helps! I'm pretty shy, so I know it's easier said than done. But it's very possible to do!
2006-10-19 06:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I also came to another place but I am okay. Just go and talk to them. Ask them questions like
how are you
where do you come from
how was school today etc.
Just be a normal person and they would understand that you are new and they will be friendly. Get involved in activities like club and societies or sport and that is where you get friends.
Don't be shy. If you see another person who is not shy, then ask yourself, "what does he/she have that I don't". You shouldn't care what others think of you. Whats the worst that could happen, everyone pointing a finger at you and laughing. Let them laugh. Remember every single person in this world has been humiliated by someone in this world.
Just talk like you talk at home or with your friends.
Good luck and hope you make some really good friends
2006-10-19 06:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi girly...my advise is to look for something that you have in common with someone and then give them a compliment and start a conversation from that. For example...if you have a similiar pair of shoes or a bag, then give them a compliment and then ask them where they got it. That's always an ice-breaker and girls just LOVE talking about clothes, shoes and make-up. :) Always be yourself and don't try too hard. Just relax. I know it must be hard making new friends in school but just try getting out of your "comfort" zone and approach someone. You might be surprised to find how many kids are will to talk to you and you'll have plenty of friends in no time. God luck!!
2006-10-19 06:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in a dating the shyness will leave. You will discover your self being extra cozy round that exact person. Now you'll be fearful now, however if you see her it can be simply love it used to be whilst the 2 of you had been on-line.
2016-08-31 23:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT!!!!!
just kidding, i was really shy around new people when i moved to a new school too. don't worry, be yourself, and people will come to you. even if your shy, there's always a friend out there waiting to be discovered by you. go talk to some people. try to make some friends. if it helps, talk to them when they're alone.
suggestions on what to say. ask names, what's up, ask if they would like to be your friend. that's the best i can think of right now. hope that helps you.
2006-10-19 06:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by troublemaker_4_life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate Social Anxiety And Shyness - http://tinyurl.com/BWXO6gL3Tq
2015-09-25 17:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i would suggest that feel confidence & be proud of who ur without annoying ur friends make sure u to paticipate school activities eg sports so that u meet as many friends as possible
wish u good luck& try to be urself
2006-10-19 06:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to someone you see in one of your classes or one of the people around your locker. If they act like a jerk just try someone new there's always a better person that will talk to you. (i am panda's daughter 14 and in the 9th grade)
2006-10-19 06:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by panda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋