2006-10-19 06:14:51 · 25 answers · asked by teresak713 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think "healthy". Don't go eating ice cream and donuts every evening and/or consume alcohol. Every time you think of your break up, do something healthy. Go to the gym. Take a brisk walk. Eat something that is good for you. All of these things make your body feel better. Since your mind isn't at ease, try to make everything else around you better. You'll get to feeling better faster, and in the process, you'll be looking better for the next person who's lucky enough to be with you. Stay positive and stay busy!
2006-10-19 06:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I'm recently going through a separation from my husband. It definitely takes prayer, time, tears, family, friends, and in some cases therapy. Find things to keep you busy but not so busy that you put the break up on the back burner. It could come back to haunt you if you don't take the grieving time you need. I hope you heal fast and find happiness within yourself.
2006-10-19 06:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, hang around friends and family as much as you can, stay busy. Sooner or later you'll get over it. By the way, in your next relationship keep your family and friends in your life as much as you can and you'll notice that something like this won't hurt so bad.
2006-10-19 06:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time...the worst thing to do is to find someone else to be with. Never fill the void or you'll never know how to get over any kind of relationship issues. And most importantly...MAKE YOURSELF #1!!!
2006-10-19 06:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will 100% time heals the pain....just time and keeping busy with good friends and maybe finding anothe love..though rebounds relationships usually dont work out..just have fun.Life is too short!
2006-10-19 06:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Be patient with yourself. And try to keep your thoughts and feelings in check.
Feelings and emotions stem from ones thoughts. Keep your self busy with your time, and also make time for yourself. You are beautiful and special and you deserve to make quality time to do what makes you happy.
Also try to relax, listen to music that relaxes you and if your into it ( or you could learn it)
meditate. Meditation produces an inner peace and produces emotional and mental stability.
2006-10-19 06:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and patience!! Don't expect it to just happen suddenly! Putting yourself out there definitely helps by that I mean: Meeting other people, taking on new hobbies and interest doing things that make you happy!!
2006-10-19 06:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get over a break up by doing stuff. go out. try a new hobby. but most of all don't try to jump into a new relationship because all you will doing is comparing that guy to the other guy and just mess it all up with that guy.
2006-10-19 06:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Cutey Cutie QT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go have you a party and invite the dude who you just broke up with and start dancing with a cute dude and make him wanna go back with you or just go out and chill with some of your girlfriends
2006-10-19 06:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by chan_sweet91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. But if you want to get over them quickly, start dating other people and see how that goes. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-19 06:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by princessaranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋