Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I'm 15 and i really like this 17 year-old in my school...one problem is that she has a boyfriend who is a complete show-off and he's kinda stupid...if in anyway she broke up with him, do i have a chance, i really like some help...

2006-10-19 07:22:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Under what conditions can a child be taken from a family? what about an underage child of a compulsive hoarder? Can they be taken away?

2006-10-19 07:21:49 · 9 answers · asked by little_beth85 3 in Family

i met this guy at a camp thing and i gave him my phone number later on in the day he called me twice and i asked him to go to a football game and he said hed love to but couldnt cause of church, he calls me a lot, but whenever we do get talking, he usually had to go...i mean he doesnt lie and hes a pretty busy guy...so do you think he likes me?

2006-10-19 07:21:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you read an answer that seemed really insightful or funny and wondered about the person? Do you think the avatars make the people look nice or interesting? Do you think people with avatars get more responses? Have you looked at someone's page and read their other questions and answers? Would you feel like a voyeur? Would you send someone an email or respond to one from someone who liked your answer?

2006-10-19 07:20:52 · 15 answers · asked by Steve M 3 in Singles & Dating

So I'd like to "do" something "thoughtful" rather than "buy" something "expensive." Not that I wouldnt but im only working with like $100. That money is definately at her disposal but, I want to have something i can do to suprise her right when she gets home.

2006-10-19 07:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by nickname 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy and I have been emailing almost daily for 3 months and dating for 2. We really like each other and he mentioned it would be nice someday if I could perhaps move in with him. Now the problem. His house is the messiest, most cluttered that I have EVER seen! There is no way I could ever live there. He says he will fix it up but think he has a severe pack-rat personality and will never change. I am starting to lose respect for him. Should I continue to see him? Am I wasting his time + mine? I just can't think of a possible solution to this dilemna.

2006-10-19 07:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

18. I try 2 B there for both, even 2 this day where I am now married N live farther away. I give them gifts on every holiday N birthday, N I never expect N E thing in return. I give them $ when they need it, N get them out of trouble N E sumtimes. I'm very close 2 both, esp. w/ "18". I used 2 B close w/ "24", but we grew apart over the last few years, as I grew even closer 2 18.

It's been about 8 years since I've lost the bond w/ 24, N have been trying 2 get it back. It all started when he started doing drugs, N he already has a bad temper as. At first I tried 2 help him, hang out w/ him, N let him know that I can show him a better environment w/o the drugs. It didn't help- N he would start fights with me. He would hit me, pull a knife out on me, pushed me on our stairs, 4 no reason- but I knew it was from the drugs. And I understood, B cuz I love him. He sees how close I am 2 18, N it hurts, cuz I wish it was the same w/ him. But it's hard to 4 get the fights.

2006-10-19 07:19:09 · 10 answers · asked by candy- capped 5 in Family

I know it's stupid, and last year i'd have said only ugly people meet on the net but i joined this website and met this guy. We started talking on msn, sometimes till 5/6am. Then we started talking on the phone..he lives in spain and it always seemed to be me calling him (v.expensive). He sends me songs his written and vice versa. I think about him all the time. How can i get over him? It's ruined my relationships with anyone else coz i always compare them with him...HELP!

2006-10-19 07:18:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think everything would just be okey and fine if LOVE never exists?

2006-10-19 07:18:09 · 6 answers · asked by Joe KMD 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 07:18:06 · 9 answers · asked by Sousan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is love purely love or is there always other factors related with it?
What makes you love a person? beauty, money, fame, personality?
If the person you are in love with right now, when you first met him or her and him/her was a very ugly person would you still have fallen in love with her/him? Could you ever love a homeless person if money truly is not based in love?

2006-10-19 07:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I've been going out with came over yesterday. It was a pretty gloomy day, very cloudy. We just kind of hung out on the couch together and later in my bed. There was lots of cuddling and play-fighting. Anyway, it seemed to me like she was having a good time. When it was time for her to go to work, I kissed her a couple of times outside in the hall and she smiled and told me to call her some time. Then today at work, I didn't even get so much as a hello. She was totally ignoring me. She wasn't even looking at me. This isn't like her at all but I didn't say anything. I just got my check and left. So what the **** is this?

2006-10-19 07:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I'd especially like to hear from someone who's already been through this and knows how I feel.

2006-10-19 07:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by vitamin D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont knw i really am starting to feel apart from my b/f it like i find it hard to say that i really want to be with him. Sometimes when i say i love i just feel empty inside.Also i am starting to feel second best. Is it because i pregency is why my hormones are playing up or is it because that the way i feel. What do u think u should do? What would u do?

2006-10-19 07:16:57 · 17 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Singles & Dating

i am soo happy

2006-10-19 07:16:07 · 19 answers · asked by Native Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

whether or not my gf and I break up? She is so hard to get to open up. We have been going around in circles trying to make something work (because there is a lot of potential and definitely still a spark) but she needs more space than I can give her and feel like we're still dating. I think I am going to tell her that, tell her she knows where to find me, but if she feels like she's still looking for something more, then she should go try and find it because I am done waiting on the back burner. I love her, but that's why I have to let her go do this if she wants. What do you all think?

2006-10-19 07:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

please help

2006-10-19 07:15:28 · 10 answers · asked by William C 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so heres the deal i coulght my mom cheating with a guy thats only 2 years old er then my girlfriend "i know grose!" So what do i do now that she knows that i know???

2006-10-19 07:15:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

buy all your friends presents. Why not jut pull names instead?
What do you do about this?

2006-10-19 07:15:24 · 5 answers · asked by cajunlady 2 in Friends

There is this girl I like that is in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her(a few weeks ago) and once I even gave her a teddy bear(3weeks ago) and I’ve been really nice 2 her without her acting different in any way. The thing is im a shy person that doesnt talk much and i want to be able to just talk with her but it seems weird cause i dont talk much 2 her. How do i just talk and get 2 know her without it seeming weird

2006-10-19 07:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i dont know.

2006-10-19 07:14:38 · 23 answers · asked by cinderella 8 1 in Singles & Dating

the week prior to my best friends engagement party, her father passed away. he had everything planned out to give her the wedding she wanted. she wants to include him in either the wedding invitation or program. but we can't seem to find the right "wording etiquette" to do that. any suggestions?

2006-10-19 07:14:29 · 33 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

i met this guy at a camp thing and i gave him my phone number later on in the day he called me twice and i asked him to go to a football game and he said hed love to but couldnt cause of church, he calls me a lot, but whenever we do get talking, he usually had to go...i mean he doesnt lie and hes a pretty busy guy...so do you think he likes me?

2006-10-19 07:13:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy for 4 days and it was like love at first site we would talk all night long until one of us would fall asleep and we both had the same likes...i really thought he liked me because he would even carry a picture of me on his psp... everything was great but one day i called him and he said he would call me back and he even used the words babe....5 hours past and he still hadn't called me back so i decided to call him to see if something was wrong and he didn't answer me a day past and he still hadn't call me so i called him again and still no answer a week has gone by and he still hasn't call me i've gone on with my life but everyday i think about him and i just cant get him out of my mind.. i miss him soo much and i just want to know what i did wrong...what should i do??

2006-10-19 07:13:38 · 10 answers · asked by vihii k 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my bf have been seeing eachother for about 7yrs off & on with no committment. We recently committed to eachother & are planing on moving in together early next year. He told me of a girl he was dating for two months while we were here & there with eachother. I figured i would be honest & tell him that i slept with one of his friends earlier this year. It was a mistake but i needed to be honest with him before we move forward in our relantionship. It happened before we decided to be with eachother. He didn't see me as anything more then just a piece of you know what. After i told him it took him a while, but we became closer. Now this passed Sat we were at a get together for a friends b-day & his friend was there. He told me he will never forget. I decided that if he can't forgive me then we need to go our own way. Is it something that i can work with or is it a lost cost? He left upset two days after & didn't tell me what was wrong. he didn't answer my call. Will he get over it?

2006-10-19 07:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Singles & Dating

He is on the other half on the world. I haven't seen him but I do really love him. Love him that I always wait for him. Will he be faithful to me and vice versa? Hopefully he will come back for Christmas.

2006-10-19 07:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by arjay babe 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl I've been in love with for some time broke up with me after telling me she was a lesbian. She said she loves me but thought it would be better for me if she left me then so it won't hurt me as badly later when she wants to be her "true self". We agreed to be just friends, but over time I realized that I want to be with her more than anything, and I've just felt more miserable every day without her. I've told her this, and she just seems confused with what she wants, and can't decide what to do. Does anyone have any advice for me?

2006-10-19 07:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by MEGAWALRUS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy 6 months ago when I was taking a french course. He's a very nice guy, polite, well-educated, he was so sweet to me. We dated for couple of times, and we both had a good time together, and he told me that he liked me. Then, just before summer, I asked him about his plans during the vacation, and he said : "My gf from NY will come to France and we'll spend the summer together". And I was shocked, and sad.I didn't know that he had a girlfriend . Since that time, I lost contact with him, and we never met again. And now, I actually want to contact him , because I think he was my friend, and I don't want to lose a friend, although I still have a feeling for him. Should I contact him again?

2006-10-19 07:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 in college and have NEVER asked a girl out (too shy) or been asked out. This girl always talks to me when we see eachother. She mentioned she had a boyfreind this summer but don't know now. How do I know if she likes me or just wants to be a friend?

2006-10-19 07:11:35 · 4 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

tell me.. when in intimate situations is it better for the girl u are with to be quiet to to make noise... cuz typically it is hard to refrain... but last time... my man gave me a funny look when i said something... and now i am unsure if i should try to hold back or what....?

2006-10-19 07:11:34 · 10 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Singles & Dating