Is love purely love or is there always other factors related with it?
What makes you love a person? beauty, money, fame, personality?
If the person you are in love with right now, when you first met him or her and him/her was a very ugly person would you still have fallen in love with her/him? Could you ever love a homeless person if money truly is not based in love?
2006-10-19 07:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, love exists. In fact there are three types of love. (Agape) unconditional which we have for are children. (Prelio) which is a brotherly type love. (Eros) which is a sexual type love between man/woman. Love is all around, open your eyes.
2006-10-19 07:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be able to stand alone and unaffected by "other factors." But sadly for most people, love isn't the first priority. It takes time to fall in love and learn to love--so the problem isn't so much that we couldn't love someone who is poor or poor-looking. The problem is many people are too shallow to give them a chance. Many people do marry for money, lust, or more innocently because it's the "right" time. They may end up loving whoever they marry--if they're really lucky.
I fell in love with my boyfriend because of his personality and the way I feel when I'm around him. He's such an amazing person and I am lucky to have him--nothing else matters. Love, not money, fame, or beauty, is what makes life worth living--I'd love my boyfriend in spite of anything so superficial.
2006-10-19 14:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about experience..if it is first love ..well it is proably good sexual chemistry ..if u have been through things hardships difficulties ..and u have had.. the good looking young dude ..the multimillionaire who was a complete a s s ..and the perve..and the poor dude who had a bad exhaust on his car..but was nice..u have had sympathy for the one labeled the geek or the cripple ...and the not so good looking..if you have been through things it is never ever going to be about all the things you have just said ..money buys things...it doesnt buy happiness ..watch House of Carters..good looks are only as nice as the human being is inside..and fame is only brought about by someone who was in the right place the right time who worked hard or their family was already famous..it takes experiences with Love and people and life to know what "Love"..really means to u as an individual...sounds like maybe u havent been through enough yet if u dont know..
2006-10-19 14:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Love does exist. I'm a mom and I love my son more than I ever thought I was capable of loving another human. In regards to loving a homeless person... why not? I'm thinking that the only reason I'd find myself in love with a homeless person is if I'm homeless as well, and we've been hanging out together or something... I don't think I've ever seen a homeless person and fallen in love.. no. I think what I'm trying to say here is that usually, you'd have to grow to love someone... regardless of their looks, their status or anything like that...
2006-10-19 14:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by monie0078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love, true love, comes when a person least expects it to. I would still love my love no matter what his looks were or are. He has this kindness about him, this side of him that is helpful with a kind reaching hand to help others. His heart is in the right place. He has the intellegence to do whatever he chooses. He is not rich, and has no money, and if he was homeless, I would still love him. I can not say that he would or does feel the same for me. I actually highly doubt it. But love is unrewarding, it is not boastful, or resentful, and love expects nothing, not in love back in return. And because I feel this way for him, I know my love for him is true, reguardless if he returns it or not. Blessed be.....
2006-10-19 14:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a complicated thing and it is detemined by the person doing the "loving" level of maturity. A mature person loves another for them "the person" and not a wallet. I have been in love twice in my life, the first time was because he said he love me so I thought I was supposed to be in love with him. The second time I FELL in love with an out of work, beautiful hearted man - simply due to his heart and the way he lived his life. We have not been together for 17 years. Love is beautiful, but unfortuneately society dictates that financial status makes life/love easier. I will never believe that I wont love my husband as much if we didn't have a flush bank account. I love the man not the wallet.
2006-10-19 14:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is incredible and when its real it grows in ways unimaginable.
Love is based in chemistry. Then security. So depending on your needs and wants..it will work for you.
Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Never judge a person by their looks to rule out a mate. Unless you want a child to have certain things, then you must move to a suitable mate.
The young are attracted for breeding/chemistry, the older are attracted by intellect and security, and if you hit it just right you get the whole thing.
2006-10-19 14:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with my fiancee. I think that every person can love someone differently. I might love someone for a certain reason, but another person can hate that about a person. It really depends on what your looking for. Everbody is attracted to different people for different reasons.
2006-10-19 14:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE DOES EXIST BUT IT ONLY REALLY THRIVES IN THE MOVIES. WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS OUT HERE IN THE REAL WORLD BUT THERE ARE A FEW THAT ARE MADLY IN LOVE AND SHOW THE TRUE MEANING OF LOVE. I WISH I COULD FIND THAT
2006-10-19 14:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by SWEET WCC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is in the air every where you turn around
2006-10-19 14:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by stuckbetweenlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋