i went out with this guy for 4 days and it was like love at first site we would talk all night long until one of us would fall asleep and we both had the same likes...i really thought he liked me because he would even carry a picture of me on his psp... everything was great but one day i called him and he said he would call me back and he even used the words babe....5 hours past and he still hadn't called me back so i decided to call him to see if something was wrong and he didn't answer me a day past and he still hadn't call me so i called him again and still no answer a week has gone by and he still hasn't call me i've gone on with my life but everyday i think about him and i just cant get him out of my mind.. i miss him soo much and i just want to know what i did wrong...what should i do??
2006-10-19 07:13:38 · 10 answers · asked by vihii k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest, you did nothing wrong.
Sometimes the best way to say goodbye is to say nothing. Both men and women try hard at times not to hurt each other's feelings. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
Use this as a building block for confidence. The two of you had a great time, and now the moment has passed.
Be well, look to the future, and be blessed in a great moment. Now go find that again with someone else.
Wish you luck!
2006-10-19 07:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to kind of get a grip a little bit... you only went out for 4 days. That's way to short of a time to be so committed/emotional.
Unfortunately, he probably didn't feel the same way. Be glad you only invested four days instead of 4 years.
It was time to say goodbye when he didn't call you back.
Sorry! =-(
2006-10-19 14:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by answerlady1021 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has a problem or he was just playing with you. do you know where he lives? try findin out whether he's ok. maybe a problem came up and he can't contact you. if you cant get any info about him....then my dear friend, he was simply playin! Be happy cos u just went out with him for 4 days. if u went out for longer you could have ended up gettin really hurt. i know it's really hard to forget a very special person but if you try hard u can. go out with your friends more and do some fun activities. you'l be able to get over him fine.
2006-10-19 14:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by greek_myth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For god sake you were with him for 4 days. You cant let yourself get this attached this quick. Your just not meant to be together. Do not call him anymore. You did nothing wrong.
2006-10-19 14:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him from a different number or from a private number! if you did that and still no answer, maybe something IS wrong. but if he do pick up... tel him that you deserve to know what happened and why he never spoke to you again!
2006-10-19 14:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him...or take things easy as if u dont care, make him do all the work here...if he really is interested then he wont give up after a while but if he isnt that into u he will give up and move on with his life....dont take things too seriously since u dont kno where your standing at, just chill
2006-10-19 14:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something bad happened to him. Have you seen him around since then? Do you have mutual friends that you can have talk to him on your behalf, or that you can ask about his status?
2006-10-19 14:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lusting over this guy, it's not love. And you didn't do anything wrong, he obviously just does not feel the same way about you.
2006-10-19 14:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD NOT LOOK AT YOURSELF AS IF SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU AND START POINTING THE FINGER THE OTHER DIRECTION AND REALIZE THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH HIM. IF YOU LET IT GO AND IT DOES NOT COME BACK IT WAS NOT MEANT TO BE
2006-10-19 14:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by SWEET WCC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe something happened 2 him...if he rely liked you like you think he did then there is no reason why he wouldnt answer the phone...
2006-10-19 14:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by useless23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋