i dont knw i really am starting to feel apart from my b/f it like i find it hard to say that i really want to be with him. Sometimes when i say i love i just feel empty inside.Also i am starting to feel second best. Is it because i pregency is why my hormones are playing up or is it because that the way i feel. What do u think u should do? What would u do?
2006-10-19 07:16:57 · 17 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pregnancy effects both of you. Your hormones are raging while he is also changing, mentally. He is feeling the need to grow up and become a father. If he is immature then that will not be easy for him.
Communication is key. Find time to talk and truly just listen to each other.
2006-10-19 07:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be hormones. Pegnancy does that kind of thing to some people. But you need to figure out if thats the case or if you truly arent happy. Dont wait untill you been in the relationship for years and have problems and then realize you have wasted 15 years of your life and have children that you will have to consider. Because then its not just whats important to you and your feelings. You will have to consider the child also. Most important is your feelings though and if you dont truly love that person and are not in love with them then why waist your time or theirs when the right person is out there for both of yall
2006-10-19 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your hormones. I just recently was pregnant and I know how the hormones are. But I would really sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Be open with him and maybe you can find some closure in how you feel. He may just not be paying that much attention to you so therefore if you talk to him then he may realize what is happening and try to make you feel better.
2006-10-19 14:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by redeemer19832002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you can realize it may be your hormones! My opinion is that it most likily is your hormones...I'd put the hormones in check..by seeing a doctor or talking to a nurse about it...but in the end I'd wait out the pregnancy. Hormones are extremely hard to keep in check and work through, I say hang in there...don't give up unless you have a real reason to leave him.
2006-10-19 14:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by nicoles_symphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the hormones talking. Just sit back and enjoy being pregnant.
2006-10-19 14:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess. You're under 18, had sex with an a*shole, got pregnant and now he doesn't care and you don't have feelings for him and the whole world sucks.
You were probably warned. No seek some friends or counseling.
2006-10-19 14:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it some more time. Give it time to figure out if the pregnancy is the reason or not. If it has nothing to do with the pregnancy, i would break up because no point in dragging him along thinking you are in love when you aren't, and its not worth your time if you do not love him.
2006-10-19 14:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Paladin252 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to talk to him and tell him that you want him with you. Yes, its probably the hormones, I'm not sure how he's treating you, I hope well. Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel.
2006-10-19 14:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It very well might be hormones. Your body does crazy things when your pregnant.
2006-10-19 14:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are carrying HIS child?
Get into a support group. Pregancy is very hard even without such thoughts.
2006-10-19 14:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋