This girl I've been going out with came over yesterday. It was a pretty gloomy day, very cloudy. We just kind of hung out on the couch together and later in my bed. There was lots of cuddling and play-fighting. Anyway, it seemed to me like she was having a good time. When it was time for her to go to work, I kissed her a couple of times outside in the hall and she smiled and told me to call her some time. Then today at work, I didn't even get so much as a hello. She was totally ignoring me. She wasn't even looking at me. This isn't like her at all but I didn't say anything. I just got my check and left. So what the **** is this?
2006-10-19 07:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could I possible get some answers from the guys? No offense, but I don't trust any advice from a woman, concerning women.
2006-10-19 07:21:59 · update #1
I am assuming you work with her.........???????????
If you do, then she might just be uncomfortable since you work together. She might not want people to know OR she might not be sure how you really feel.
Just call her tonight and talk to her. I guarantee you will be surprised in her response. I am the same way....I wait for the guy to make the move in public, so I don't look silly. I don't want to be rejected if he is not wanting a public relationship.
Good Luck---I know it will be fine---just TALK to her. Let her know you WANT her to talk to you at work...she will be happy you brought it up and even noticed that she was being stand offish.
2006-10-19 07:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered asking her?
I don't know.... you two were playing around in bed like a couple of puppy dogs and she says "call me some time"? Hardly seems worth getting upset over someone who ignores you to the point of not even looking at you.
2006-10-19 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never fish off the company pier. thats trouble! she wants to keep it on the DL
2006-10-19 14:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't want the people at work to know you are dating her.
2006-10-19 14:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She my just be a little scared
2006-10-19 14:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's trying to keep it quite so you don't get into trouble.....You need to ask her!
2006-10-19 14:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta ask her
2006-10-19 14:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋