Should I feel bad that I don't care?

Question

whether or not my gf and I break up? She is so hard to get to open up. We have been going around in circles trying to make something work (because there is a lot of potential and definitely still a spark) but she needs more space than I can give her and feel like we're still dating. I think I am going to tell her that, tell her she knows where to find me, but if she feels like she's still looking for something more, then she should go try and find it because I am done waiting on the back burner. I love her, but that's why I have to let her go do this if she wants. What do you all think?

It's not that I don't care about her or us, it's just that caring whether we work is proving to be more caustic than just letting go.

Answer 1

i think you have thought this thing thru very well and i think your are right. you should tell her, and let her go if thats what it takes. the right thing to do is usually the hardest. i wish you the best man, and remember if she doeant come back to you, she didnt love you anyway.........

Answer 2

So move on already. Obviously you're not compatible. Why are you forcing something that isn't working? Stop. Admit you're not right for each other. End it. Move on.
You're not married, so you're free to find someone else.
PS When you go in circles, you are really going nowhere. What a waste of time.

Answer 3

You're definitely making the right decision. Hey, and maybe someone better and more decisive will come along for you.

Answer 4

don't get caught up in waiting for people to be mentally ready to be with you. let her go, follow your heart and needs before any ones.

Answer 5

You are on the right track. Stay positive, life is good.

Answer 6

let her go. look for someone who is ready for what ever your looking for

Answer 7

sounds like u do care...