A girl I've been in love with for some time broke up with me after telling me she was a lesbian. She said she loves me but thought it would be better for me if she left me then so it won't hurt me as badly later when she wants to be her "true self". We agreed to be just friends, but over time I realized that I want to be with her more than anything, and I've just felt more miserable every day without her. I've told her this, and she just seems confused with what she wants, and can't decide what to do. Does anyone have any advice for me?
2006-10-19 07:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by MEGAWALRUS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to let go (though it seems impossible) it's going to hurt, but the longer you hold on to someone who is even more confused than you are, the worse it is going to be. So meet new people, hang out in different groups, spare yourself.
2006-10-19 07:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mommie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off~ Are you a guy?
If she wants to be lesbian or just experiment, then let her go and go find happiness in another relationship. That won't work for you, it will only hurt you more. Move on dear.
Of course be her friend, if you can do that comfortably, just don't let her have privileges that a girlfriend would have with you.
2006-10-19 14:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure,,,,,,my advice is to tell her you will allow her to have her girlfriends too, only if she shares.
Maybe your drooling after something that may be impossible to have. Some become addicted to things they can't have.
Try a 3 some!!!
2006-10-19 14:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hole woman. Why take half when you can find acomplete one.
2006-10-19 14:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and Move on!!!!
2006-10-19 15:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by american girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋