Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

2006-10-19 08:05:56 · 17 answers · asked by shellie ann r 1 in Singles & Dating

We were 16 and hanging out in front of her garage just talking when this drunk SOB plows right into us. She was killed instantly he only recieved 6mnths. Now years later he has moved to a town I live in. He thinks he should be treated nicely because as he says he has done his time. I so don't think so, especially since he is still a drunk. His kid goes to school with my little sister and sometimes I wish I was the kind of person to hurt a child so he will know what it feels like to lose someone special to you. I thought I had reconciled my feelings until I saw him again. How do I stop hating this man?

2006-10-19 08:05:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was seeing a woman and 4 months into the relationship I told her I don't want anything serious, just a no strings attached relationship. She understood and made mention of returning a CD to me that I loaned her. 3 days later a coworker handed me the CD, she had dropped it off at my work place. I tried calling her and she would never answer. 5 months later I went to a restaurant and saw her there with a man. When she saw me, she nodded her head at me but did not speak. I realize I made a mistake and I want her back in my life. She never did anything wrong, it was me. Should I call her or leave it alone?

2006-10-19 08:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by jerry 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay. Both my parents drink, gamble, and they like to party....ALOT. I go to school, babysit, work, and give them money. But the thing is that they happen to be my stepparents. My real mom is dead and my real dad lives in a different town. My bestfriend's family wants me to move in with them, but my real dad wants me to live with him. But the thing is my step parents won't let me move out and I have a scholar ship here. So I could always go to the cops and move in with my best friend. But here is the other thing I have a lot of brothers and sisters two of which I raised. I love them dearly. So right now things are rough. My stepparents owe me like three hundred dollars, and they keep borrowing. My grades are low. And at times I don't want to do any thing but cry. So if you have any ideas as of what you would do in my situation please let me know. Oh and remember they drink alot. When they are drunk it gets really bad. But yeah thats all I can type right now I think one is coming Thanks

2006-10-19 08:05:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sissy Lauren 2 in Family

and I couldnt believe the amount of women that got their kids ears pierced at like 3 weeks old. Dont you think thats cruel. One woman said "its no different to a shot". Well yes it is because earrings are not going to stop your child getting diptherea, tetanus and polio. They are not a nessesity and their baby shouldnt have to get holes put in her skin just so they can show her off like a trophy.

2006-10-19 08:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This backseat driver is my 82 yo grandmother who really needs someone to drive her around. BTW, she has no driver's license (hers expired in the 1960s). Her constant comments (during the whole drive) is really starting to become distracting. She'll yell "stop" because she thought a pedestrian was about to walk in front of the car and she will say "why don't you start braking now?"

2006-10-19 08:05:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy carries on the conversation on the phone all the time...he asks me how i am and there are never any akward silences, he doesnt just sit there like a fish out of water...he actualyy talks...i ave him my number and he calls me a lot...do you think he likes me...?...

2006-10-19 08:04:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a bf that i love with all of my heart and the other night he got drunk and passed out and one of his moms friend (aitn but a 1 older than he is) okay and my bf woke up to her sucking on his neck and he said that that is all he remembers and i dont no weather to be mad at him or what cause at least he told me and was being honest but what if thay did more? someone plz help me!! how would u feel. would u brake up with him? i have been going out with him for 2 yrs and 7 month and some odd day s and he had never done any thing like this before.

2006-10-19 08:04:42 · 23 answers · asked by justin_lover_2169 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a smart, funny, laid back girl who can not find a man to save my life!! The only thing "wrong" with me is that I am a bit over weight. I currently am working with a personal trainer to fix that -- but I think its wrong that I can not find a man the way I am -- I am fabulous! So my question is how do you get a man, a real man, to see past the non super model exterior and see the beauty on the inside.

*** Just as a side note -- I am told quite often that I am pretty and I shouldn't be so drastic -- so could it just be the fact that people in my area are to superficial?? -- BTW I am in PHX, AZ

2006-10-19 08:03:39 · 27 answers · asked by krissyb1980 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 08:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by SG 4 in Friends

i asked the question "why do men cheat?" i got the most negative answers in the world. some ppl even blamed me for something i didn't even do. saying things like i was boring i let it happen so forth and so on. i don't even have a boyfriend and haven't for about 5yrs. because i see how men are sometimes and i feel i can't trust. it was just a general question it didn't apply to me. is the whole world as negative as this. seemed almost no one had anything positive to say. is this the fate of the world? one big unhappy planet earth? where are the positive ppl?

2006-10-19 08:02:17 · 23 answers · asked by chrisarea_99 3 in Singles & Dating

she is in las cruces and i'm in roswell

2006-10-19 08:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by manuel c 1 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't want his hands all over me in public.

2006-10-19 08:01:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are your plans for the weekend?

2006-10-19 08:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by tired l 1 in Singles & Dating

OK im a bridesmaid in a wedding (kinda a junior im 15) the wedding itself is going to be a country club... the rehersal dinner will be at a nice italian resturant ...not upscale but you get the picture... im not sure what im supossed to where... and another thing what do you do at the rehersal dinner? (is it just dinner or is it other stuff)... if you could help me with either question that would be great!! Thanks

2006-10-19 08:00:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hey says that he is confused and wants to be with the ex because he never finished and never got over her. But, he says he loves me. I told him I would wait and see if he wants her or not. Do you think he will work it out with her? They stopped going out last November, and were together for a year and a half. We only went out 5 months, but claimed loving each other and wanting to spend our lives together. Who will he choose and how long before I know?

2006-10-19 08:00:13 · 9 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

only wanted the same sex, how will it mulitply?

2006-10-19 07:59:31 · 4 answers · asked by tired l 1 in Singles & Dating

i went with a south african girl for four years but she is crazy, are they all the same???

2006-10-19 07:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by ticket 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I called off my wedding coz of serious complications in our relationship. 2 months have since passed and I have come back to the US as I had moved to anohter country to be with him. I called it off coz he said nasty things to me the day before the wedding and his mom was being a nightmare and some other issues. He called me yesterday saying that he wanted to be friends so I spoke to him and talked about how my life was going on..however after the conversation and whne i hung up I felt really sick mentally and physically. The last time I had called him when I came to the states after the breakup, i was not feeling good and told him that and he just abused me saying that i was a crazy woman and i had issues and yesterday was the first time i spoke tohim after that.
We were together for 8 years and we definitely had fun times shared similar interests,,I do want to be friends with him however I dont know why i feel so sick mentally / physically when i try to be friends. Wts wrong with me

2006-10-19 07:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by LostHeart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 14 year. When my wife and i dated and the first few years of our marrige we had sex often and everywhere. Even after our two girls were born things were still very regular. The last 5 years have been sexless. She have sex with me a few times one month and then go 3-4 months without. I do not get it. I am 6'2" and 245lbs., ex-bodybuilder, work out every morning, make $100K every year, really help with the kids, do the laundry, shopping, coach my daughters teams. I don;t drink, smoke, or go out at night. Most people who meet us think I am a perfect husband just not my wife. It has become so bad I have lost all interest. If she came in here now with nothing on but a smile I would probebly say no.

I feel alone, unhappy, and unloved. Personally I think she no loger loves me and hasn't for years. I can not leave her because I love my girls to much no to see them as much as I can.

Any ideas???

2006-10-19 07:57:38 · 29 answers · asked by tmcumis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it when guys look at me they look at everything but my face. All my friends tell me I have beautiful eyes. They're blue and I think that they are gorgeous. However, when a guy first notices me he only sees my extra weight. What can I do? Does it really matter if I'm a little chubby?

2006-10-19 07:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by shelbykittygirlie 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a hotel. A husband left her wife there alonefor three days to do business in mexico. we became friends, we spoke butnothing happen. she felt guilty and told her husband. what do i do. my boss is mad but blames both and i gave my boss a paper where she wrote her cell# and email for me to call her. what do i do. The husband wants to meet me and talk to me but my boss says no..way!.

help

2006-10-19 07:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by johnny33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it when guys look at me they look at everything but my face. All my friends tell me I have beautiful eyes. They're blue and I think that they are gorgeous. However, when a guy first notices me he only sees my extra weight. What can I do? Does it really matter if I'm a little chubby?

2006-10-19 07:56:51 · 12 answers · asked by shelbykittygirlie 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now?

2006-10-19 07:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm humorous, kind, cute, and know how to make a woman feel like a woman in bed. But what is it about me that doesn't draw more women? Just curious.

2006-10-19 07:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by SmB/CBolling 2 in Singles & Dating

can y'all really tell if a girls is a virgin? and if she is and hasn't had that much experience does that knock her down in your estimation? would you form a serious relationship with her if she wasn't experienced?

2006-10-19 07:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by skyhopperveg22 1 in Singles & Dating

i was dating a guy in uk ,when he came down here ,my ex - got jealous and hacked my e-mails and sent him msgs saying i was still wit him, my boyfriend has now left me ,plse he never got to hear my side of the story what do i do now. i still love him

2006-10-19 07:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by ruddygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and broke up 3 weeks ago. Last night I drank too much and ended up at his place. I am seeing a new guy that is cool but we just started dating and have not even kissed yet. My ex and I DO NOT want to get back together, and really like my new guy. Should I lie to about seeing my ex?

2006-10-19 07:54:36 · 30 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some really good loves songs. Any suggestions would be great from anyone.

2006-10-19 07:54:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

HI I work at an big ad agency, Im friends with a co-worker who is much older and married with a kid. I have a boyfriend. And people that work here seem to have what appears to be a high scool mentallity... and now are talking behind my back and to other co workers saying we're hooking up! It's such crap how you can't be a good friend with another co-worker and have other poeple think you guys are doing stuff.. So what, we're friends. But now it's getting out of control, my friend works here at the same agency and she is in a different dept. At work parties, people forget that we're friends and gossiping to her about how this "art director" is hooking up with this other co-worker. and when my friend asks who? they say me!!!! ofcourse she defends me in her way, but still Im soooo tired of this crap and it's must liky hurting my rep here, what do I do!!!!! help!
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2006-10-19 07:53:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends