My ex and broke up 3 weeks ago. Last night I drank too much and ended up at his place. I am seeing a new guy that is cool but we just started dating and have not even kissed yet. My ex and I DO NOT want to get back together, and really like my new guy. Should I lie to about seeing my ex?
2006-10-19 07:54:36 · 30 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you drunk whore.
2006-10-19 07:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by SatanicYoda 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There comes a point in every relationship where we must ask ourselves with what I know now can I continue to work at maintaining this relationship. Now it is not uncommon for individuals to not discuss or disclose there previous sexual relationships or partners. After all we are just human. He probably saw these incidents as before your time and does not see that his past affects the way you feel however he still feels the same as he always has about you. You are not stupid for feeling that you have been deceived. However you yourself said that you were under the impression that he had only had one partner, but that was before you asked. You wanted the truth and he figured you were stable and mature enough to accept the truth. We all have pasts you never mentioned whether you have had previous partners,because it isn't relevant to how you feel about his past. Remember there are two people in your relationship both have feelings and concerns. What difference does it make that his father is "priest" he is not his father and should never be held to a higher standard because of it. Who knows perhaps he was conceived in a restroom we are all humans and prone to the weaknesses of lust irregardless of what we do for a living. What is right or wrong can be only determined by the individual themselves. I say he was right to withhold this information just look at your reaction he expected this. reaper out........
2016-05-22 02:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me too. My boyfriend and I were together a week and I had sex with my ex, even though we didnt want to be together. Just forget it ever happend and dont ever see or talk to the ex again. Put it out of mind, you are just confused. move on and enjoy your new guy. Stuff happens. just dont make a habit of it
2006-10-19 07:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by katie-bug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK 1. if you and your don't want to get back together then stay away from him. 2. relationships are built on trust and crap so yes tell him. 3. I don't think your ready to be in a relationship right now you might still be too raw from you break up it wasn't that long ago.
2006-10-19 07:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking too much is no excuse. How sad for your new boyfriend, obviously you are not ready to be in a relationship. End things completely with both men and stay single for a while. You definitely need to.
2006-10-19 07:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not like sleeping with you means anything. You've enjoyed alot of men so one more won't really make any difference. It's like buying a car with 100,000 miles on it. Does it matter if the car as 102,000 or 105,000? Not really, because you know you are getting a used car. Get it? A used car.
2006-10-19 07:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STUPID!! If you like this new guy why would you sleep with your ex? He has the right to know what you did. And getting drunk is no excuse. I have been drunk plenty of times but I still know what I am doing.
2006-10-19 07:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you need to tell your new guys about you slept with your ex. you haven't even kiss him yet, just let it go if i were you. i pretend nothing happen. do you still have feeling for your ex?
2006-10-19 07:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to lie, just do not tell him, because you are going to open more then you want to. This tells you something you do not need to be drinking too much, because you are not responsible. You need to do some self evaluation of your self.
2006-10-19 07:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be honest with yourself girl you probably still have feelings for your ex. it si better to work things out with your ex-rome was not built in one day.and differences are part of life.
you dont have to tell him anything , unless it might affect him.i.e what if you get pregnant. work out your true feeling then make a choice.
2006-10-19 08:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by ruddygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Tell the new guy. No guy wants to get played like that
2006-10-19 07:56:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋