if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now?
2006-10-19 07:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you would be to seek professional help. Therapy is probably needed as you are absolutely obsessed with this. You've posted it over and over again.
talk to a psychiatrist
2006-10-22 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by menahmenahmenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and move on. She clearly has unfinished business. That is called BAGGAGE, and it contaminates all existing and future relationships. Who is her loyalty to anyway? Him or you? You can do better......
Drop this girl like a bad habit, and find one who is so into you that you'll want to call all your friends and brag to them.
Find a girl who never causes you to question, wonder, or worry about her feelings and loyalty for you. Find a girl who inspires you to feel strong, appreciated, saught after, and desirable.
They are out there just waiting for you to make the first move, and to notice them. You'll have fun with this. Don't go out there and try to make a girl like you, but rather go out there and try to make a woman feel pretty, intelligent, clever, appreciated, and saught after.
Give to others what you crave from them. If it comes back your way, then hang onto it and get to know them.
2006-10-19 08:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if you have asked about this problem that many times then you are just waiting for someone to lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. The girl is in love .... WITH HER EX... move on
2006-10-19 08:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by STEPHANIE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She still wants her ex.
2006-10-19 07:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by SatanicYoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be using you to make him jealous.sounds like she still likes him,why else would she still be keeping in touch with him? however, maybe she's just friends with him. ask HER!!
2006-10-19 08:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋