ok i have a bf that i love with all of my heart and the other night he got drunk and passed out and one of his moms friend (aitn but a 1 older than he is) okay and my bf woke up to her sucking on his neck and he said that that is all he remembers and i dont no weather to be mad at him or what cause at least he told me and was being honest but what if thay did more? someone plz help me!! how would u feel. would u brake up with him? i have been going out with him for 2 yrs and 7 month and some odd day s and he had never done any thing like this before.
2006-10-19 08:04:42 · 23 answers · asked by justin_lover_2169 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him that you will give him that one but not another, She may have tried to do more but if he was that drunk I don't think she got anywhere. I would say something to his Mom, tell her that her friends are wicked nasty. Good luck.
2006-10-19 08:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would most diff break that off asap!!! No kidding sweetie. You should get a guy that wont get drunk and mess around with another girl. And maybe him saying he didnt know what happened after that, was his way of not telling you they screwed. Love isnt supposed to hurt !! Heres some suggestions for after you dump this loser !!!!
1. Go dancing! Hit the clubs or something!
2. Shop till you drop!
3. Get a new group of friends... New friends brings new guys! =)
4. Dress up as often as possible... Turn heads, Give you a great feeling!
5. Try getting a hobbie! Crafts, Bowling, Running, Ect.
6. Throw out all of his stuff.
You'll be feeling fine in no time ! Good luck!
2006-10-19 08:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. First off if he was drunk he might have done more, but he doesn't remember. His ability to make decisions is impaired and its a very high possibility that something could have happened, but if something did just remember that he was drunk its not a good excuse but it does happen. He still loves you and he did tell you. What you need to do is talk to this chick and find out what she remembers than talk to your guy. Don't break up just yet. One accident doesn't always need to end things. If it continues then do something. Just ask him not to drink so much. If he does drink then ask him to stop before he gets to the point of no return.
2006-10-19 08:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way ! dont break up ! Hes most likely telling the truth. And just the feeling he has about how your feeling is strong punnishment. Mabe if you put your self in a guys body with a guys brain you would understand. If he loves you like you tink he may get mad at you for being so accusive, or just the oppisiate,,all nice,and logical....just remember how good you make tings work and that should be enough to anter some time to let it go. just after you ***** him out for the last good time then rock his world. But be yourself !..If he is true
and good to you 85% of the time he one out of a million
the choice is yours... major drama(this makes men walk away and take xanax drink beer and tend to be cold to you) Or get it all out asap in 10 min yes 10 min then suck his neck untell its in your stomache..
you will be fine time takes all pain away.. just be mature
2006-10-19 08:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Carter P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I honestly believe that something more happened. Ask him to tell you the truth and if he doesn't then go to hte woman. Approach her boldly but with CLASS meaning don't go to her acting like a fool. Ask her. Normally when you go talk to the other woman with some sense, she will spill her guts. And if she tells you what happened, don't be mad at her....Go read him like a book. Then dump him because he lied and cheated. You deserve better than that in your life. The mistakes we make as women is thinking that when a man cheats and say he will never do it again is believeing him and taking him back only to be hurt again. Do some investigating before you jump to any conclusions. Take care.
2006-10-19 08:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a million. Wot is ur theory of a a chuckle night day out? As long as that's no longer something too considerable, it is not significant, 2. whilst r u plenty happy? whilst i'm with my friends, playing my guitar, or playing with my cat 3. Wot is the worst factor u have ever performed? called my neighbour, and cautioned her to place off the Quueludes, it would desire to no longer provide up her from being a suffering in my as* She hates me even even with the incontrovertible fact that, she had it coming.
2016-10-02 11:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone has a drinking problem. Drinking to the point of passing out, waking up in bed with other women, not knowing if he had sex. Either that, or he knows exactly what he did and isn't going to admit doing his mommy's friend.
I suppose if he ends up with a disease or a baby on the way, you might want to break it off.
If it were me, yeah, I'd end it.
2006-10-19 08:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if he told you about it on his own he is telling the truth. If it makes you feel better ask him to stay away from this women in the future. Tell your bf how upset you are by this so he can understand. Don't blame him just explain how you feel about what happened. Maybe he can help make you feel better about it.
2006-10-19 08:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you know what to do. Do you trust him enough to know that he is telling you the truth? If I chose to believe him I would put my foot down about him getting drunk and blacking out. I would try to give my relationship a chance. However if I found out he was lying I would kick his butt out so quick his head would spin.
2006-10-19 08:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He was being honest, A guy don't lie when he wants to, Unless he knows how you are going to feel. He probably is telling the truth, but before you are sure, Ask that girl that did that to him, I am pretty sure she does know.
2006-10-19 08:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by i.d.k.u. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋