Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

My hubby and I are getting a divorce. So we seperated and then we got back together. Then I went to jail for 4 months. I really want to get back with him but he doesnt. What do you think I can do to make it happen. We do have 4 kids to consider.

2006-10-18 10:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by reginasob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex boyfriend are going through a lot of drama lately since we were so close and he suddenly left me. I recently found out it was because he thinks my parents hate him and for that reason we can't work out. First of all, my parents do not hate him, but he won't believe my no matter how many times I tell him. Also, we're too young for those things to matter [we're just in high school] and I don't see why my parents opinons matter especially at this age.

He wants me to move on and forget him but I think he's being way too dramatic, and I know he will regret this later. I know him too well and we were too close for him to just give up on us like this. He can't just run away when the going gets rough.

Whenever I'm cloes to giving up I get this gut feeling that I need to keep going. This feeling wont go away and is sucha huge feeling I think it has to mean something. What do you think ? =/

2006-10-18 10:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated my brothers bestfriend for a fewyears and caught him cheating on me,i left him(it has been over a year since and he still is trying to get me back)I dont want him.About7months ago i ran into a guy who is mutual freinds with them both and we really hit it off,i was still bitter about the cheating and he was so sweet by listening and understanding,he drove me homethat nightand i invited him to stay and asked him to sleep in the bed with me and put his arm around me,he did anddid notmake anymoves.I saw him once since that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"i have thought of him ever since.I sent him a text a few months ago and never got a reply,a mutual freind toldme he liked me but isfreake about my ex.There is this yearly party coming up and they will allbe there,i dont mind seeing my ex for i m overhim now.but i would like the chanceto talk tothis otherguy again.Although he rsvp'd forhimself plus a guest,soi assume he has a date?Should i give it a shot and attend?

2006-10-18 10:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's your day off and you just got paid. You could do anything you wanted to do. While your girlfriend is at work, you fix every broken thing around her house and on her car...clogged drains, broken locks, trunks that won't open, oil leak, etc... (So, I had a few issues! :) You buy parts/supplies and spend about 6 hours doing these things. Instead of the things you keep saying YOU need to do...wash your truck, do laundry, etc... She's already your girlfriend, you're already getting sex every day, you're not fighting or having problems of any kind...you're "in"... why do you do these things? Is it love? Just being a nice guy? Lost your mind and can't focus on your own tasks in life so you take care of your girlfriend's?? What's going through your head? Or, in this case, my boyfriend's head? We've only been dating for 2 months...

2006-10-18 10:31:45 · 15 answers · asked by Grá 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have had some problems in the past with cheating and now i dont hang out with any of my guy friends so that he can trust me again. but he still hangs out with his girl friends. and he has told me that a couple of them have a thing for him and he is a big flirt around them. im just worried hes going to lead them on. its not that i dont trust him i dont trust his girl friends...

2006-10-18 10:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by Alayna H 1 in Singles & Dating

thanks for everyone answered me first time but i would like to ask also about what i deas do you have about arranging a romantic and sexy dinner so i can give her the gift plus if you have any idea about sexy underwear thanks

2006-10-18 10:29:48 · 7 answers · asked by TITO 2 in Singles & Dating

as a youth did you seem to get into trouble. stealing, vandalism, curfew, and things of that nature? after getting in trouble did it take a while to realize it was wrong or did you get it instantly.

my son gets into trouble and it does not seem to me that it bothers him in the least bit. i have never been a boy at any time, but i want to know do boy brains function differently from girl brains when it comes to getting in trouble or is that just hype.

i really want to understand what goes through the male mind as mine is female

2006-10-18 10:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by edcltu 1 in Family

i FEEL DEAD..UNSURE?? dont know what to feeel??
hey .. i had a confrontal talk with this guy .. the ***** he was he said touching etc.. was justa form of affection..
so if a guy touches..strokes awomans hair..face ..its platonic????
it ended.. on a note i dunno what to make out of it ..can some one please HELP me!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 10:29:09 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I know the proposal is coming and me and him have talked about it many times. But I wanted to get him something in return. When the couple get engaged only the guy have proof of it not the guy. So I have already talked to him about it and he kind-of agreed that he would like an egagement ring too; that he would wear it proudly. But when do I give it to him should I what for him to propose like I know he is or give it to him as a promise ring for christmas?

2006-10-18 10:28:42 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

2006-10-18 10:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were still friends but everytime im bout to go i say can i give u a hug he say no sliently and says it be too awarked but evently he does and i give him a little peck on the check and he feels unconfortable i ask him today to give us another try but he said no so then i said can we be good friends as i dnt ever wont to lose you. he said ya we can be friends. im still in love with him and this is not a crush im in love and he doesnt wont to be with me. he just wonts to be friends. WHAT SHUD I DO?

2006-10-18 10:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by chickstar 1 in Friends

2006-10-18 10:28:05 · 1 answers · asked by blondegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by serrano_bill 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:27:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mhel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so I'm fat. I get that. But I am smart and fun and hardworking. I care about people and put others before myself. I am in school to go into advertising art (layout & design stuff). I have tons of guy friends but none that have ever wanted anything more than friendship. What's the deal... Is there anywhere out there where a girl like me can find a good guy???

2006-10-18 10:25:56 · 27 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Singles & Dating

On his phone, i am "snowball" He has a gurl but she knows we like each other. Do you think he likes me or just wants a hook up?

2006-10-18 10:25:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with this guy from my english class again, it's our third date. he asked me to a halloween party this saturday. the problem is i don't know what to go as. i want something cute, but sexy too. Do you guys and girls have any suggestions?

By the way, when is it ok to have a first kiss? we didn't have one on our first or second date. so is it possible this date will be a winner.

Everything is going great, we both have had a great time on our two dates, so what can be the hold up. i really want him to kiss me, and i'm not sure i have the guts to kiss him first.

any suggestions?

2006-10-18 10:25:06 · 4 answers · asked by PIXIE 1 in Singles & Dating

He started being angry towards her when she lost her job and gained 10 pounds (up to 112lbs). He has pushed her, berated her, made things so nasty at home that her 12yr daughter moved out, and in with her father to escape the arguing that was often directed at the kids....He was fiscally irresponsible - didn't pay ANY bills one by one the utilities were shut off. He finally moved out, just walked away from all responsibiity - and the kids. She had to borrow $$$$ so the bank wouldn't foreclose. She finally had to sell the house. He took his half, she used hers to repay loans from friends .... now he comes around, has a few beers, they have some fun, she loves it - and him, then she doesn't hear from him for weeks, and neither do the kids. All the while - he thinks he has done nothing wrong! He blames her for his friends not respecting him. She had no hot H20, nofridge, no dryer, no Gas, no phone, no TV - with kids. He is shameless - his friends saw itand were disgusted with him.

2006-10-18 10:24:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why is it genetics? do they have to move on to the next girl? will it ever stop?

2006-10-18 10:24:38 · 11 answers · asked by grace07 2 in Singles & Dating

It my 2 year anniversary with my GF and i need a present to give her. I've already done jewelery, roses, watches, chocolates, perfumes and she dosen't like it when i give her clothes.
I want to give her something new any ideas?

2006-10-18 10:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by JOEY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He makes me laugh and he can do something that Beau can't do that i have wanted for so long, hug me. I thought Beau was the only type of guy that would call a girl beautiful, but i was mistaken. I'm always thinking about him now, just staring into space when my mind is supposed to be set on Beau. No doubt i love Beau to death but he may have competition. His fun to be around and has a great personality. Why can't this be any easier on me? I have a guy who wants to marry me and have kids with me while i have another guy who really seems to like me. Is it weird if i feel funny around Leigh when he hugs me, or looks at me. I told Leigh that i keep getting teased in class and he told me not to worry about them and im a great girl. No doubt he likes me, he tells me all the time; in messages that is. Every lunch and recess he comes and sees me. I don't know what to do.....has anyone got any ideas? Beau is the love of my life whos been wit me for about 2 years and he hasnt came to see me yet.

2006-10-18 10:23:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has not had sex with me in exactly 11 months. The day our baby was conceived, and that was the only reason she did then. She doesn't think sex is part of a healthy marriage. I don't know how much longer I can stand it. I love my wife very much, but like any mae, from any species, I NEED SEX!!! What should I do?

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2 minutes ago
Let me add to this. I DO give my wife love and attention. I also do all the house work; dishes, laundry, cleaning. And to Sarahsmam.....I get up with the baby almost every night. I stay up late with her, feed her and put her to bed. I also take care of the yardwork, feed the pets, and keep up with the cars maintenance, along with working 40+ hours a week. And I'll let you guess at who the cook is. Now tell me what you really think?

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Oh yeah, and I still hold my wife in bed every night. Even if we have been arguing.

2006-10-18 10:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by Bad Pookie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

As you all know i really like my lady friend and i wanted to be a real friend one that shares the good and bad times and we both go to church and school and we had some arguements before you know and we get through it but i want to be a real friend while she doesnt really want it and i said that im glad youre my friend and she said it was really sweet that i said it and it was on sunday and its wendsday but i dont see any real progress from it. Do you think it could add up to something? Or do you think it is just the same? Anything can happen at this point but in the past it seemed like it would never happen. And i was trying to be a real friend in the past.

2006-10-18 10:23:04 · 3 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Friends

i was so scaried but dont understand why i couldnt scream,today my ex-boyfriend came outta of nowhere and punch me as hard as he could in the GUT,gosh i thought i was dying it hurt so bad ,im 22yrs old and couldnt scream for help ,why ? he walked away laughing ,,was this reaction normal or should i be worried im 5"6 120lbs ,it still hurts,,anyone else ever have something like this happen to them?

2006-10-18 10:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi Im looking to buy some new aftershave and fancy a change and was wondering what you would recommend I hear that Hugo Boss Engergise is nice?

2006-10-18 10:22:40 · 24 answers · asked by atticusblack19 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:21:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our baby is now 4.5 months old, my wife is exhibiting poor parenting skills, she is spoiling our little girl and over feeding her. I notice in the middle of the night when the baby is crying, my wife jumps out of bed and feeds it, not to mention waking me up. She rocks the baby and coddles it like a little puppy, I'm afraid my daughter is going to grow up spoiled and expecting people to jump when she demands it. I've spoken to my wife and explained to her that when we put the baby to bed, that's it, lock the door and and explain to our daughter that she has to think of other people, and her crying in the middle of the night is disturbing and uncalled for. My wife doesn't see it that way , she thinks that little babies need to cry to make sure we're around. Well what happens when she joins girl scouts, we're not going to be there , she's going to have to depend on herself, I think this is a valuable life lesson. Where can my " poor parenting skilled wife " learn these skills ?

2006-10-18 10:21:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-18 10:21:38 · 6 answers · asked by A true mark 1 in Singles & Dating

ANY suggestions are appreciated. Thank you.

2006-10-18 10:20:45 · 8 answers · asked by LondonNubie 2 in Weddings