Ok, so I'm fat. I get that. But I am smart and fun and hardworking. I care about people and put others before myself. I am in school to go into advertising art (layout & design stuff). I have tons of guy friends but none that have ever wanted anything more than friendship. What's the deal... Is there anywhere out there where a girl like me can find a good guy???
2006-10-18 10:25:56 · 27 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure there have been guys who wanted more than friendship. But you were looking past those "nice-guys" to "bad-boys" that you are better off without.
2006-10-18 10:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omigod i have the same problem!! well....similar anyway... i'm really not that fat but all my friends are tiny! some guys (who r such *** holes!) tell me constently that i'm fat! and yea it hurts... but one of my best friends (who is a guy) told me that i wasn't fat but i was deffinetly bigger then other girls. i know that sounds mean but her also said that girls that are smaller then a size 4 is unatracive. he said that it's grosely skinny and it looks better when a girld has a little more to her. think of it that way. i think that's it's nasty how skinny the girls are these days. i worry about my weight all the time but i know that there's really nothing i can do about it. i'v tried everything from diet pills to starving my self to trying to eat healthy food. nothing worked. so i just deal w/ it. try to look for a guy ur size. or really let the guy get to know what a wonderful person u r. i hope i helped!!
2006-10-18 10:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will! I was told by a friend to always keep a smile on my face because a guy may fall in love with that smile. I think she was right, because my boyfriend said he loves it when I smile.
Just make the best of what you've got! You can look cute no matter what size you are! I have always been self-concious of my body. I think the tops of my legs are too big. I just try to find cute clothes that flatter my body. I also feel better about myself when I have my hair and make-up done nicely.
Also, are you SURE that one of your guy friends wouldn't be interested?
2006-10-18 10:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will find a great guy. I know I did! I'm not what one would call 'fat' but I am 5'3 and 140. Compared to these stupid supermodels society measures the rest of us poor schmucks up to its seems as if we don't have a chance. If a guy is really interested he will look beyond your physical features and see the beauty that lies within. I know it sounds cliche but trust me, your prince will come.
If you REALLY want to find someone, try an on line dating service. I have never tried one but my sisters friend, who is plus sized is actually getting married to a really sweet guy she met on line this fall. Hopefully something good will come of it. Good luck dear.
2006-10-18 10:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a plus size women myself I just wanted to say that I am very confident in myself, I dress to the par, and I make sure that I am well maintained. So be confident, look good and keep your head up. It will come
2006-10-18 10:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me a while, but I found my Mr. Right (after spending all of my college years without any real relationships, I met him a month before graduation). It'll happen. Just be open to it. My guy wasn't who I thought I'd end up with, but he's perfect for me and we've been married two years.
2006-10-18 10:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by lickitysplit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are a lot of guys that love a as i say a curvy woman and i am one of them. I really have never liked a real skinny woman. But they are out there you just keep a looking and don't give up.
2006-10-18 10:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the ptiy party out and drop some weight if you think that's the reason you can't get laid!....However,I'm "plus sized" and I get offers all the time(not as often as if I werent so fat ,mind you).Do your hair,whiten your teeth,fix yourself up a little,wear a little perfume,just be yourself......you'll attract someone.
2006-10-18 10:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT A SIZE 2 WORLD. really i don't mean to be rude but i am a size 2 i get treated like a twig. you have body. trust me in the real world most people look like you, they look real.
2006-10-18 10:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by angel e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋