were still friends but everytime im bout to go i say can i give u a hug he say no sliently and says it be too awarked but evently he does and i give him a little peck on the check and he feels unconfortable i ask him today to give us another try but he said no so then i said can we be good friends as i dnt ever wont to lose you. he said ya we can be friends. im still in love with him and this is not a crush im in love and he doesnt wont to be with me. he just wonts to be friends. WHAT SHUD I DO?
2006-10-18 10:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by chickstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he's doing his best to let you down gently love - he's saying NO in all the right places but you're just not listening. Save yourself any more hurt and move on - find a nice guy who will return your love 100%.
2006-10-18 10:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best friend you can be. Look, romance isnt everything be there for him in the bad and good times. Hang out and show love in different forms instead of hugs and kisses. Actions and words are the best thing you can do. Have fun and dont take it for granted. Id love to have a relationship like that...
2006-10-18 10:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I think you should let him go.
Leave him alone for a while. Don't contact / text / see him.
The more you keep seeing him the more you prolong your pain.
Bite the bullet and move on. It's gonna be hard I know, but the end has got to start somewhere.
Who knows, if you give him a wide berth, he may start to miss you and realise how much he loves you and may come round, but the decision has to be his.
Hope this helps!
Best of luck!
2006-10-18 10:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Moofie's Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not too sure there hun? from what i've read i think he does care about u! have u hurt him? because the pulling away but quiet murmurs sound like he's scared? only u can answer this question hun, read it back slowly!!
2006-10-18 12:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by diamonds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop seeing him. You're only torturing yourself. He wants to move on, let him go. If you really loved him, you wouldn't be so selfish.
2006-10-18 11:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes your ex for a reason sweet,stay Friends and move on and find your self a new relationships you will always have your ex as a good friend.................
2006-10-18 10:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go . If it was meant to be ,you wouldn't be posting here . Your obviously can do better.
2006-10-18 10:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by RockManRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he is really not interested in you anymore keep way.
2006-10-18 10:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by rachael p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋