Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Now that I've got your attention, here's the problem:
I feel as if I have no hope left.......Please Help!?
I used to like a guy named Shabaz. I stopped liking him a few weeks ago. I like his friend John and I'm getting hints that he likes me to, but today when I saw both of them and two ofther friends, Shabaz said that I was mad ugly and John was just looking at me. The look that he gave me was like he was laughing at me or happy. WHy was he doing that? After that, I just feel pissed and surprised and I feel like crying. I don't know what to do....I feel like cursing Shabaz out 2morrow. Should I? Both of them are a year older than me. It's hard for me to give up John. I can't forget about him. Please help. Thanks

2006-10-18 10:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I've got a friend & she says she's been raped by this one guy. I told her that people would believe it cuz of the way he is. So, I told her about this one time when he touched me. I told her not to say anything about it though. But ended up & she did. She's probably gonna take him to court, but she has no evidence & she needs back up & she wants me to go with her. I don't want to get my family into this. I haven't told my mother or dad. I don't want to walk in school & have people say I'm a liar & ask questions. He'd deny it anyway. I don't even know who I believe. I don't think she'd lie about it. but he's 18 & is messing up his whole life.....just doesn't sound like him. Should I go to court & get involved or leave it alone & stay out of it. Please help me. This is serious.

2006-10-18 10:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for over five years and when his kid comes to stay over I have to move to the sofa. I have an issue with this...am I wrong? I feel that he's trying to compensate for the time he doesn't spend with his little boy but he say's the little boy is afraid of our puppy and the sort. Although I have agreed to put our pup in our room if that is the case and his son should sleep in the same room as my daughter's from a previous relationship. Today we are not sleeping together anymore as I'm still both pissed and hurt that he would disrespect me in such a way. As if to point out to his son that dad's girlfriend isn't that important and our relationship isn't that serious. He just doesn't seem to get why this for means that our relationship has hit a serious curve that may or may not be so easy to rectify. This is the 2nd time this has happened.

2006-10-18 10:17:32 · 36 answers · asked by kepbnl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some one stole it from my office and is apparently holding it hostage....what do I do? It was just a glass pitcher full of ice water

2006-10-18 10:17:21 · 11 answers · asked by pitcherhostage 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this was a follow up on my last question. re: husbands mean behavior towards everyone that loves him. Is seven weeks not long enough to figure out what one is going though emotionally and mentally?

2006-10-18 10:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Juls 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my dream, I could'nt get into my house, and my deceased brother opened the door for me with a smile.

2006-10-18 10:16:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-18 10:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

TOM VOLPE. i need his e-mail address!!! ASAP

2006-10-18 10:14:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What was the most memorable sex you ever had and what made it something you would never want to forget?

What encounter makes you wish that you can forget it - what made it so bad?

2006-10-18 10:13:53 · 8 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

It is two hours away from where I live.I still make more than him. I paid for his classes and books etc... He still does not have his degree. He was able to land the job of his dreams and is still taking classes. I am proud of him. I have a Master's degree. He wants me to sell my house(had it before we married) and get a job in his area. I REALLY LOVE MY JOB!!!! What should I do? He can not save a dime and is in debt. I am just the opposite. I love him and this is driving me me crazy. p.s. he accepted the job without discussing it with me.

2006-10-18 10:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by boxley4404 2 in Marriage & Divorce

feel so good? also why am i going to do this to many more white women?

thanks. keep the peace!

2006-10-18 10:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by Asian Jesus 1 in Singles & Dating

she has never worked and i was commited to the marriage. it doesnt seem fair that she and her new man should get half my estate

2006-10-18 10:13:17 · 55 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what happens when others tell you to move on, get over it, but you really feel deep down that it's not over and something more is meant to come? i don't mean a relationship that ended, but one that never yet began. how can someone tell you your heart is wrong, that what you're feeling is not right? who do i trust - others' opinoins who see everything that is happening or what i feel inside? i am so confused

2006-10-18 10:13:01 · 11 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends Ex-Boyfriend asked me out and she said I shoulad say yes! Should I? I really, really like him and he is the cutest guy in school! Should I take the date?

2006-10-18 10:12:51 · 14 answers · asked by border_chick82 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:12:08 · 30 answers · asked by ifoundmyguy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl break up for about two months now out of a reationship of 8 months she broke up wit me because she dont feel me and her ask a couple but just a friends, but we still do things just like when we were togather only thing is that we dont do anythnig romantic what should i do i love her and want to be with her but she broke up with me and she still dont give me any space to move on and she keep on saying to wait on destiny for us toget back togather im confuse

2006-10-18 10:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by yard kid 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so tired of reading questions about divorce, cheating, abusing, blah, blah, blah. Is there anyone out there who is married and actually happy??

I am very happily married 7 1/2 years and wouldn't change a thing. I am very old fashioned in my marriage and family values. My husband and I share everything. There are no secrets between us. I am a stay at home mom of two kids. I love it. I don't feel like I need to go searching beyond my marriage for anything sexual or physical in any other way. My husband and I have a very good realtionship. We are best friends and eternal companions. We don't control, abuse, or fight. We do everything together and we respect and trust each other. I love him more than any other person on this earth, I wouldn't ask for anything more.

Does anyone out there have a good marriage? Are you happy?

Share your POSITIVE stories! I don't want anything negative!!! I know they are out there. Speak up!!

More marriage, less divorce!!!

2006-10-18 10:11:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this mate.... we've been best mates since we were really young and have stuck by each other since.
Lately she feels the urge to rebel and go off smoking pot and crap and getting drunk. Only the other week she ran round the whole village completely topless and had the police after her, when they got her she got searched, but luckily she gave her stuff to her druggie pals so she got away. She's been my only best friend for the whole of my life and i have never been that great with socialising, I've always thought i'd be okay only having one best mate since thats all i've ever needed, but now shes moved on i feel like theres nothing left for me to hold on to. You may think i'm over-reacting but if you knew how close our bond was you'd realise what a shame it is that this whole friendship has gone down the plug hole so quickly. i'm just asking for any sorta advice in which ways i can improve my socialising and the hope to have my best mate back? I'm not as young as you think btw.

2006-10-18 10:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 31 i have 3 kids, i had my eldest child when i was 17 two weeks before my 18th i love me kids more then i eve thought possible. so why does my mother hate me???? she had me when she was 18 and has all my life made me feel i have to say sorry for being born,she went on to have another two kids with my father and when they split she had another kid with her new hubby. she openly favored them over me. I have not spoken to her in over a year, i was the one to ring and see how she was she only ever rang if she needed something so september last year i decided to stop ringing to see how long it took for her to ring me i am still waiting!!!
I have been thinking lately should i ring or write but not sure what to do??

2006-10-18 10:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by Dharma 3 in Family

how old were u when u lost ur virginity....how long were u goin out with the guy?

2006-10-18 10:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by snowgirl281 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't personally think it's weird to be into camming, but does anyone think it's weird. I still meet women besides on the internet, but does anyone else find it slightly exciting meeting the opposite sex and being explicit with them from the other side of the world? If so any ladies want to have some fun?

2006-10-18 10:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by theusaloveitorleaveit 3 in Singles & Dating

Haha....well my yahoo id is "alimarchi07" and u can view my 360 profile for pics....
I'm 18, have blond hair, blue eyes and weigh around 136...
I like to party, have fun, hang out w/ friends....i LOVE football, like watching baseball, i like to play volleyball, softball, badminton, and i do yoga...
i like to listen to rock music....
anyway im me if you're interested or post a comment on my 360

2006-10-18 10:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 right now. Ok, I was just walking down the hallway when my friend, (girl) pushed me against a locker a gave me a ten second kiss on the lips! I acctually enjoyed it but then I remembered she was going out with my other best friend, (boy). I am not sure what to tell her and my other friend. She was really hott but I don't want my friend to be mad because she kissed me. What should I do?!?!?!

2006-10-18 10:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:08:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 10:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by ooo_flicka_ooo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 10:08:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jelly bean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OMG, i asked this girl out that i really like and she said yes she would go out for lunch but then later when i planned it with her, she texted me" i would say yes but that would be leading you on and i think it would be better if we were just friends" i am friends with this girl and i was hopin one day she would be more than that but i didnt mean to pressure her!!!! what can i do now so she would still go out for lunch caus she is like the coolest person to hang out with

2006-10-18 10:07:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My car keys were stolen by a friend and locked inside his truck. After begging him for 20 minutes, i called my mom and asked her to bring the extra set of keys. 3 minutes later, his girlfriend finally coaxed him into opening the truck and getting my keys. She does not lie me by the way. My car was parked with the windows down in the middle of the road. He reached in and took them from the ignition. My friends were there putting toothpaste on the windows of his truck and he thinks i did it but i was standing there talking to him the entire time. IT seems every time i am with this group of friends i get into trouble. I need to stop hanging around them. BUt my mom thinks i am the one that instigated it and is now taking priveledges away from me.

2006-10-18 10:07:21 · 5 answers · asked by aloneforeverinmyworld 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 10:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I found out I was was pregnant I was living on my own. My parents invited me to come back home due to the fact that this is my first child. ThenI had my son and now they are mad because I named my son after his father instead of giving him my last name. Now they don't helo me with my child or anything like that. When we go to visit my child's father on weekends, it's ALWAYS something negative said. The reason we go there is because my car is in better shape than his fathers car. his father has been there for me since day one but my parents are getting on my nerves saying that he could come here to see us and all that. He's been coming here every since my son has been here and i been off work since August. Now that I'm able to leave the house I decide to goo to h is place since i'm well and all. but everytime I go, there's something said. They never help me out or anything. I'm 25 y/o and can make my own decisions. Help! I'm moving out. What do you guys think about this situation?

2006-10-18 10:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Family