Now that I've got your attention, here's the problem:
I feel as if I have no hope left.......Please Help!?
I used to like a guy named Shabaz. I stopped liking him a few weeks ago. I like his friend John and I'm getting hints that he likes me to, but today when I saw both of them and two ofther friends, Shabaz said that I was mad ugly and John was just looking at me. The look that he gave me was like he was laughing at me or happy. WHy was he doing that? After that, I just feel pissed and surprised and I feel like crying. I don't know what to do....I feel like cursing Shabaz out 2morrow. Should I? Both of them are a year older than me. It's hard for me to give up John. I can't forget about him. Please help. Thanks
2006-10-18 10:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go.
Cursing Shabaz out would only show him that what he said hurt you. If you pretend it didn't bother you, he'll shutup and stop talking smack, because he'll realize it doesn't phase you and you don't care what the hell his opinion is.
Anyway, I think he's basically jealous because you don't like him anymore, you like his friend... and I guess he doesn't want his friend with you. IF that's the case, you don't need either of them.
Stick to your ground and keep your head up. Don't let no one call get you down. If you keep your confidence at a good level, you'll be fine.
2006-10-18 10:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Guys Suck!!! Shabaz probably sill likes you and is jealous that you like his friend. Word to the wise, never try and come between two friends. You wouldn't be real happy if one of your old boyfriends started liking one of your friends would you? And I'm sure if it came between a guy and one of your friends, you'd choose the friend. right? I'd say if John really likes you and he's man enough to tell Shabaz to shove it without ruining his friendship, he'll call you. Don't worry...you have the whole world in front of you. You shouldn't let this guy make you feel like killing yourself. You know you're not mad ugly. If you confront Shabaz that will only make things worse. He'll know he got to you and that aint your style. You are above him and you need to project that. Be a total snob to him an dembrace your real friends.The rest will fall into place.
2006-10-18 17:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about Shabaz and his friend,there's a lot of good things out there for you. Move on and try look for a better partner. Best thing s in life are free, life is good enjoy it..
2006-10-18 17:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by JM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a guy that treats you with RESPECT.... a guy that wants you and wants everything about you...don't listen to those two little jerks...believe me after enough of those kinds of men, I know what to look for in a guy...and believe me you can and will get over John, because if he wasn't man enough to stand up for you, than honey he is not and never will be worth it! My best advice to you is, nothing gets a guys attention more than ignoring them...they hate that...Ignore those two jerks and move on...show them you don't put up with ANY kind of crap
2006-10-18 17:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by nashvillegirl_51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy John was probably laughing because he was trying to fit in with his boys..not saying that it is right. You should say anything to your ex because he is just doing that because you are his ex and he trying to make you feel bad...let him be childish. As far as John, if you feel something there, confront him about the incident and go from there.
2006-10-18 17:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by ivy190878 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he isnt man enough to stand up for u, do u want a guy like that?? i wouldnt!! Dont curse at the first guy!! he isnt worth ure time!! and it will only make him feel great that he hurt u!
Why would you let a guy rule ure life like that?? Tell him to **** off and go make out with his grandmother because thats the best he can do!!!!
good luck!
2006-10-18 17:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your goin to hell for that (partly for using your made up word "suiciding" and partly because that's no joke) get over Shazam and his little pal. It's nothing to cry about
2006-10-18 17:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF, THERE ISNT ANOTHER PERSON OUT THERE WORTH COMMITTING SUICIDE OVER. I DONT KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE, BUT YOU NEED A NEW SOCIAL CIRCLE. FIND SOME OTHER CUTIE TO GO WITH.
2006-10-18 17:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't feel bad boys do that all the time when they r in front of there friends and cruse out that boy
2006-10-18 17:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by KENDALL J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the better person, do not stoop to his level. you're much too good for that. try not to let it bother you. if he stares or gives you that look...let him...he probably wishes he still had you. good luck!
2006-10-18 17:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by belle t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋