what happens when others tell you to move on, get over it, but you really feel deep down that it's not over and something more is meant to come? i don't mean a relationship that ended, but one that never yet began. how can someone tell you your heart is wrong, that what you're feeling is not right? who do i trust - others' opinoins who see everything that is happening or what i feel inside? i am so confused
2006-10-18 10:13:01 · 11 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust yourself, but sometimes you can make decisions that dont fit, so dont rush too fast. Just wait, and in two weeks, figure out how you feel.
2006-10-18 10:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people tell you to move on and things like that, it's because it's easier for us to see what's really goin on from the outside, that you yourself might not be able to see. It's hard to listen to other people's advice because it's not what you want to do.
If you feel deep down in your heart that there has to be something more, then go with it- work out whatever you think might work. You don't have to listen to anybody's advice, because deep down, you're gonna do what you feel you have to do, even if it hurts, and even if you end up being the fool.
2006-10-18 10:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really depends how long have this been goin on for? if the relationship never began than that goes to show you that maybe its not ment to be. no one can tell you your heart is wrong only you know if your heart is wrong, for the same reason why you would follow your instincs not someone else's. as far as trust, u cannot trust anyone that always takes time to build. if you are really interested in someone just take that step and ask to find out, dont wait around and waist your time. time is to precious. good luck
2006-10-18 10:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... one thing i learn.. don't rely on other people response but if you haven't been trying to get wit hthis person for a certain amount of time.. yes get over it.. let it take its course and it should not stop you from doing anything you want to do like going out and have fun with friends and doing normal things.
Two...only you can determine what is best for you.
2006-10-18 10:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by humblelusciousangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun u gotta trust urself, just believe in urself, its all gonna work out in the end
2006-10-18 10:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself.
2006-10-18 10:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must feel in your heart that this is right and go for it sometime it will hurt but try it
2006-10-18 10:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by david k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay ..first of all i learned this the hard way
Dont trust anyone but u
2006-10-18 10:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by RaGy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNFORTUNATELY SOMETIMES OTHERS SEE THINGS CLEARER THAN WE DO BECAUSE THEY DONT HAVE THE EMOTIONS TO DEAL WITH. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART BUT WHEN YOU HAVE A HISTORY OF MAKING UNWISE CHOICES,THAT ISNT EASY TO DO.
2006-10-18 10:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boy/girl friend...
You will get over it quickly...
2006-10-18 10:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋