My wife has not had sex with me in exactly 11 months. The day our baby was conceived, and that was the only reason she did then. She doesn't think sex is part of a healthy marriage. I don't know how much longer I can stand it. I love my wife very much, but like any mae, from any species, I NEED SEX!!! What should I do?
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Let me add to this. I DO give my wife love and attention. I also do all the house work; dishes, laundry, cleaning. And to Sarahsmam.....I get up with the baby almost every night. I stay up late with her, feed her and put her to bed. I also take care of the yardwork, feed the pets, and keep up with the cars maintenance, along with working 40+ hours a week. And I'll let you guess at who the cook is. Now tell me what you really think?
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Oh yeah, and I still hold my wife in bed every night. Even if we have been arguing.
2006-10-18 10:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by Bad Pookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u do mostly all the house work then yes u need a reward!!! i know if i ever marry a man like u then i would give it up!!! u sound like a really good man, i think that ur wife might be taking advantage of u!!
2006-10-18 10:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly do ALL of this, then what exactly does she do? Sounds to me as if you need to set her down and have a long talk about how a marage is 50/50 not 60/40 and d*** sure not 100/0. And yes, sex IS part of a healthy marriage. My husband works 40-60 hours a week so when he gets home he I make sure he doesn't have to lift a finger for housework only help with the kids. And if he wants it he gets it cause I'm almost always in the mood too.
2006-10-18 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Troubled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you or your wife but it seems to me that you were good enough to impregnate her with a child and she didn't seem to have a problem with how healthy it was then for your relationship did she? Now she has excuse how I word this and by no means do I mean any disrespect to your child but it seems now she has an excuse with using the baby as a reason not to have sex with you. I am also sure that sex was not a issue in the days and months she continued to want sex in order to get pregnant. Were her views like this when the two of you were still dating prior to getting married? You need to ask your wife why after the baby is sex not healthy for the relationship but not a concern before. All in all you may want to seek counseling with or without your wife in hopes of saving the marriage. It seems like red flags are raising but only you can find that out. I wish you all the best.
2006-10-18 10:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. That's all the advice I can give you. Try to find out why she does not think sex is part of a healthy marriage. It seems a bit inhuman to me... Try to explain your point of view. Try gently teasing her to get her aroused. Don't forget that after having a child it will hurt for her to have sex again. Don't have sex with her if she's only doing it out of a sense of duty and don't force yourself on her; that's marital rape. Just try your best to talk to her and understand her.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 10:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kharm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by chicklis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that your wife has taken advantage of you and that she is very lazy person, why do anything when you have it made?
she is a one sided person as well. it may be possible she is having an affair maybe you need to figure out if she is sneaking around. something is going on as females do not go that long without sex.. if she is on her 40"s maybe its the change of life although by the sides of things i highly doubt that. make her take responsible for her share as of now and that includes acting like a mother should. good luck as you need it
2006-10-18 10:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Harley D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wife sounds life a lazy a.ss ******. You gotta get rid of her, you sound life a good man, don't let her take advantage of you.
2006-10-18 10:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
try some marriage counseling and if that doesnt work then leave and fight for custody.
2006-10-18 10:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
wow! you sure do it all. do what you feel is right. good luck to you.
2006-10-19 12:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her ***.... she should hook up with my lazy *** bf, they'd be perfect for each other.....Let me know when you're single**wink**wink**
2006-10-18 10:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by angelae93 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋