My hubby and I are getting a divorce. So we seperated and then we got back together. Then I went to jail for 4 months. I really want to get back with him but he doesnt. What do you think I can do to make it happen. We do have 4 kids to consider.
2006-10-18 10:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by reginasob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i feel so bad for you
and praying that things will work out for you
make him a romantic dinner at home and tell how how important it is for you to have him in your life again, and for the kids sake.telling him that when you where in jail you did alot of thinking and have realised how you need to be together and that you are meant for each other.
go to marriage counselling
work on your faults and visa versa with him
good luck
2006-10-18 10:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by dandyl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you use condoms and try to stay out of jail. After all you do have 4 kids to consider.
2006-10-18 17:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it you going to jail that made him say no? I am not sure why you went to jail. Providing it is something that you can correct, or have changed and you are willing to try for your marriage - maybe ask him if he will go to counseling. You are right 4 kids (or any) are worth a try. Have faith.
2006-10-18 17:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
WTF did you go to jail for?
And NOpe he is not taking your *** back .
Start looking for some one new and DO NOT tell them you've got 4 kids cause they will play you, and your kids, and there are some sick bastards out there.
You should have though about how to keep him before he left.
now he's out and its easier for him why the hell would he go back to the BS.
The D!Ck couldn't possibly be that good anyhow
So go to the store and get a good vibrator.
It might even turn your hubby on to know you have it., but don't try having another baby cause it will not work.
Good luck honey this is hard - but you'll be ok
let him go and start dating it might make him come home if he really loves you.
PLus Child support for 4 kids will kick his ***.
and don't forget to ask for alimony.
Hope he doesn't try to get custody.
And finally - do me a favor - Please stop the BS
Whatever the Freak your doing to get your Butt arested just stop stop stop-
Stop thinking about yourself and you mandingo!!
I mean you've got kids - make them your priority
GL
2006-10-18 17:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU went to jail? Are these HIS kids? Sounds like you need to get yourself together, then worry about the kids, THEN worry about finding a guy to help you out...
Good luck!
2006-10-18 17:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him love you just ask him if he will still be a part of your kids life with you. let him see you are trying not to go back to jail
2006-10-18 17:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.well just get a divorce and take care of your kids, and tell him to help u financially. It's probably better for both of u guys to b apart then to always b together figthing arguing ect. Good luck
2006-10-18 17:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by tear drop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 4 kids, it sounds like he just wants to be free from family, but make sure he still helps you financially and seeing the kids
2006-10-18 17:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force someone to be with you if they don't want to. The best thing to do is to just give him some time and space to sort out his feelings and hope for the best.
2006-10-18 17:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go to jail, he has that to consider too...
2006-10-18 17:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋