2006-10-18 10:21:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ideally I would like to see the wife telling you both to go to hell. But most probably it will be the husband dumping you.
If you have any sense of moral decency left - you will completely back off away from the situation, and leave them both alone. And if he ever dares to get in touch with you again - tell him in no uncertain terms that it's over. And refuse to let him speak to you ever again - even if this means changing your phone number. After all, you had no business whatsoever being with this man. Accept this, no matter how difficult, or sad it makes you feel, and move on.
Then learn from your mistake and find yourself a new man -somebody that's single - and pray that karma won't ever make you suffer the same kind of pain and humiliation that you and this married man have both caused his wife.
2006-10-18 11:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'll find out soon enough. He's going to let you know what type of hell he's going through, then the both of you can have each other from her point of view if she's not one of those who will take the s--- from the two of you. Why would you choose a married man anyway when there are so many who aren't? Whatever happen, you two deserve it! Been there, done that!
2006-10-18 10:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a brave one to ask this question! You had to know you were going to bashed! So I'll keep up the tradition.
So first, as a woman who has been in the wife's situation, i think you are disgusting homewrecking slut! What in the world possessed you and made you think it's okay to sleep with someone else's husband? You are horrible!
You're going to get every last bit of what you deserve. I hope she kicks your @$$! And chances are, he's gonna leave you for his wife. The mistress very rarely wins!
And just remember, what goes around comes around. You better watch it when you finally get married. Karma is a mother f#$@!#!
2006-10-18 10:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could be hauled into divorce court as the REASON they are divorcing. You could be forced to testify, so that she can rip him off his house, and his other belongings. You might even get sued!$$$
If you don't want to be with him anymore, get away from him, move, and change your numbers. Otherwise, you could be in court.
If you still want to be with him, you will end up with a loser, who has to give 1/2 his stuff to someone else, and he cheats. Great prospects, huh.
You could straighten up your own act, and regardless of what he wants, you could do the right thing and tell him to get lost--until he is divorced.
If he gets divorced for you, you will be a homewrecker and his kids will hate you. You have to get what you want, by hurting others--not a good place to start.
If he doesn't, you will have been a fool, playing house with a loser.
If she takes him back, he may leave you, and she will have a loser who will be cheating with someone else in a month.
Look at yourself in the mirror, and give the advice you would give your daughter. Then do it.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 10:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will seek help to find out why you had a relationship with a married man in the first place and never do it again.
2006-10-18 11:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have never been messing around with a married man! His wife will either leave him or he will see that he made a mistake and drop you for his wife!
2006-10-18 10:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with a married man???? do you like screwing over somebody else? why would you give your body to someone who doesn't respect a woman enough to be faithful.
I'm sorry, but you get what you deserve in this situation. I hope it helps you make a better decision in the future.
2006-10-18 10:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you wake the hell up. What comes around goes around. People like you are the reason divorce is so high. You should respect peoples commitments. One day when you are married, and think all is fine, you better watch your back, karma will pay you a visit.
2006-10-18 10:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Carey L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the wife will beat a little sense into you and you won't sleep with married men anymore. Only whores steal other womens men.
2006-10-18 10:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's going to leave his wife and be with you of course.
WAIT - This is the real world.
A) He will dump you and try and fix things in his marriage.
B) He will get a divorce and resent you for it
C) He will dump you say he is working on his marriage and call you next week
D) He will dump you say he's working on his marriage and find someone new
E) He will dump his wife be with you THEN cheat on you too
2006-10-18 10:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋