my boyfriend and i have had some problems in the past with cheating and now i dont hang out with any of my guy friends so that he can trust me again. but he still hangs out with his girl friends. and he has told me that a couple of them have a thing for him and he is a big flirt around them. im just worried hes going to lead them on. its not that i dont trust him i dont trust his girl friends...
2006-10-18 10:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by Alayna H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you should never have to dump your guy friends just to please your bf.
I say dump this guy. It's a double edged sword that he makes you get rid of them, but he has to keep his friends.
If you have no trust with him than it's not worth the effort. He does not sound like a very reliable person. You deserve a lot better than that. You deserve someone that will accept your friends, and accept you the way you are.
Good luck hun, remember they can't change,
2006-10-18 10:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by jlyn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl we all go through that and no you are not being too jealous. Since ya'll have had problems in the past then of course your gonna be curious about who he hangs out with. I have was with high school sweetheart for 8 years and he constantly had this friend of his, a girl, come to our apartment all the time. I mean she was even over there when I was at work. He kept saying that they were just friends but she constantly hit on him and in Jan. of this year while I was 4 months pregnant he left me for her. So yes I would definitely be careful.
2006-10-18 10:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statement, "I trust him, I just don't just those girls", is a cop out. What those girls do shouldn't have any effect on him if he's loyal. You don't trust him. Given the past history, I would say you're more naive than jealous. Sounds like he's playing you to me. Move on or get cheated on again.
2006-10-18 10:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by ezenbrowntown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a fortune teller, or a Magic 8 Ball, my answer would be "Doesn't Look Good."
Seems like this should end. There's so much cheating and mistrust and jealousy and other girls and worries and... what's the point? If you're not married to the guy, why be in this type of dysfunctional "relationship"? Relationships are supposed to make you feel loved and happy and move your life forward.
2006-10-18 10:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, let me get this straight, you don't trust his female friends because you cheated on him in the past??
Yes, you're too jealous.
2006-10-18 10:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being jealous. If you don't hang around with your guyfriends then he should stop hanging with his girlfriends.
If he is hanging around then its okay but if he is saying that he is a big flirt then you have to seriously talk with him.
Hope everything goes well
2006-10-18 10:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets to hang out with his girl friends, and you don't get to hang out with your guy friends? What kind of relationship is that?
2006-10-18 10:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't trust him. If you trusted him, you would have no problem with him hanging around with girls.
2006-10-18 10:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u something a relationship is based on trust and the ability to forgive but when u c certain signs like tht it means something like i want to flirt and u cant stop me
2006-10-18 10:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Nagasaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that since u don't have any guy friends that he can't have any girl friends
2006-10-18 10:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sapphire J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋